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  1. Books by Cathy Cassidy
  2. Contents
  3. 1. Friends Forever?
  4. Making Friends
  5. Keeping Friends
  6. Falling Out
  7. Helpbox
  8. Read It…
  9. Websites:
  10. THE FRIENDSHIP CHARTER: 6 EASY STEPS TO MAKING A DIFFERENCE
  11. Cathy’s Books… Published by Puffin
  12. 2. Growing Up
  13. Body Matters
  14. Girl Talk
  15. Skin Deep
  16. Mixed-Up Feelings
  17. Helpbox
  18. Read It…
  19. Websites:
  20. Cathy’s Books… Published by Puffin
  21. 3. Boys, Boys, Boys
  22. First Crush
  23. Taking Your Time
  24. Love Hurts
  25. Breaking Up
  26. Helpbox
  27. Read It…
  28. 4. School Daze
  29. School’s Cool!
  30. Teacher’s Pet?
  31. Teacher Trouble
  32. Work It Out
  33. School Blues
  34. Helpbox
  35. Read It…
  36. Websites:
  37. 5. Beat Bullying
  38. Don’t Pick On Me
  39. Sticks and Stones
  40. Speaking Out
  41. An End to Bullying
  42. Helpbox
  43. Read It…
  44. Websites:
  45. Helplines:
  46. 6. Confidence Tricks
  47. Accept Yourself!
  48. Making Friends With You!
  49. Look for the Good Stuff!
  50. Get Happy!
  51. Do it Anyway!
  52. Get Lucky!
  53. Helpbox
  54. Read It…
  55. 7. Being Yourself
  56. Who Am I?
  57. Style Matters
  58. Let It Out
  59. Peer Pressure
  60. Role Models
  61. Being Different
  62. There’s No Such Thing as Perfect
  63. Helpbox
  64. Read It…
  65. Websites:
  66. 8. Dream On
  67. Big Ideas
  68. Fame at Last
  69. Making It Happen
  70. Helpbox
  71. Read It…
  72. Read It…
  73. 9. Family Matters
  74. Super Strict?
  75. Brothers and Sisters
  76. Problem Parents…
  77. … and Parent Problems!
  78. Patchwork families
  79. Helpbox
  80. Read It…
  81. Websites:
  82. Helplines:
  83. 10. Sad Stuff
  84. Bereavement
  85. When Someone is Ill
  86. Scary Stuff
  87. Broken Families
  88. Helpbox
  89. Read It…
  90. Websites:
  91. Helplines:
  92. Email:
  93. Write to:
  94. 11. Things That Don’t Help…
  95. Don’t Worry!
  96. Little White Lies
  97. Self-destruct
  98. Rebel, Rebel
  99. Looking for Love?
  100. Hurting Inside
  101. Food Wars
  102. Running Away
  103. Helpbox
  104. Read It…
  105. Websites:
  106. Helplines:
  107. Email:
  108. 12. … and Things That Do!
  109. Negotiate!
  110. Talk It Over
  111. Expert Help
  112. Feeling Understood
  113. Express Yourself!
  114. Get Moving!
  115. Believe It or Not…
  116. Back to Nature
  117. Good Stuff!
  118. The Fab Five
  119. Helpbox
  120. Check Out:
  121. Websites:
  122. Helplines:
  123. Inspiration Box Things to Help on Blue Days!

On Monday morning, I couldn’t resist taking it to school, in case I got the chance to read it in between lessons. Our English teacher was late that afternoon, and while everyone chatted noisily outside the classroom, I edged away, sat on a quiet window sill and opened my book. I was careful to hold a hand over the cover, in case anyone saw me reading it!

I was miles away, wrapped up in the story, when the worst thing ever happened. The cutest boy in our year walked up and asked me what I was reading. I went the colour of a beetroot, but I had no option but to show him the book – and to my amazement, he grinned and said, ‘Watership Down? That’s the best book I’ve ever read!’

I learnt a really important lesson that day – never, ever be ashamed of reading. Seriously. (And if you’ve never read Watership Down, give it a go – whatever your age!)

Joss is not a geek or a loser. She should blank the nasty comments, or, if that doesn’t work, talk to her guidance tutor and get some adult support. It’s cool to like learning… that’s one lesson we could all do with swotting up on.

Teacher Trouble

Hello Cathy

Our English teacher has one or two kids in class he really likes, and they get all the attention. He often says the rest of us are a washout, which upsets me because I used to love English. How can I make him see I’m trying as hard as I can?

Jill, age 13

Cathy

Have you ever had a teacher you didn’t like? I have, and it’s making my life a misery!

Charleen, age 14

One thing you should know about teachers – they’re not perfect. Like the rest of us, teachers are only human – they make mistakes, mess up sometimes, and some of them are not as nice as others!

Jill’s teacher may not mean to, but by dismissing most of his class as ‘a washout’ he is alienating them. Why should they try to impress a teacher who has already labelled them as losers? Jill is missing out on her favourite subject, which isn’t fair. She and a friend could try talking to this teacher quietly after class one day, explaining that they are trying hard, but would love a little more support. Hopefully, he’ll get the message!

Having a teacher you really don’t like is very tough, as Charleen has discovered. I too had a teacher who made my life miserable, back in primary school. It’s even worse if this happens to you at primary school because you only have the one teacher for every subject – there’s no escape!!! My mum came in to talk to the teacher who was making me so unhappy, but even that didn’t help… things didn’t improve until she left to have a baby. Phew! Looking back, I wonder if she’d been having an especially stressful pregnancy, but still, I wish she hadn’t chosen to take it out on us!