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  1. Books by Cathy Cassidy
  2. Contents
  3. 1. Friends Forever?
  4. Making Friends
  5. Keeping Friends
  6. Falling Out
  7. Helpbox
  8. Read It…
  9. Websites:
  10. THE FRIENDSHIP CHARTER: 6 EASY STEPS TO MAKING A DIFFERENCE
  11. Cathy’s Books… Published by Puffin
  12. 2. Growing Up
  13. Body Matters
  14. Girl Talk
  15. Skin Deep
  16. Mixed-Up Feelings
  17. Helpbox
  18. Read It…
  19. Websites:
  20. Cathy’s Books… Published by Puffin
  21. 3. Boys, Boys, Boys
  22. First Crush
  23. Taking Your Time
  24. Love Hurts
  25. Breaking Up
  26. Helpbox
  27. Read It…
  28. 4. School Daze
  29. School’s Cool!
  30. Teacher’s Pet?
  31. Teacher Trouble
  32. Work It Out
  33. School Blues
  34. Helpbox
  35. Read It…
  36. Websites:
  37. 5. Beat Bullying
  38. Don’t Pick On Me
  39. Sticks and Stones
  40. Speaking Out
  41. An End to Bullying
  42. Helpbox
  43. Read It…
  44. Websites:
  45. Helplines:
  46. 6. Confidence Tricks
  47. Accept Yourself!
  48. Making Friends With You!
  49. Look for the Good Stuff!
  50. Get Happy!
  51. Do it Anyway!
  52. Get Lucky!
  53. Helpbox
  54. Read It…
  55. 7. Being Yourself
  56. Who Am I?
  57. Style Matters
  58. Let It Out
  59. Peer Pressure
  60. Role Models
  61. Being Different
  62. There’s No Such Thing as Perfect
  63. Helpbox
  64. Read It…
  65. Websites:
  66. 8. Dream On
  67. Big Ideas
  68. Fame at Last
  69. Making It Happen
  70. Helpbox
  71. Read It…
  72. Read It…
  73. 9. Family Matters
  74. Super Strict?
  75. Brothers and Sisters
  76. Problem Parents…
  77. … and Parent Problems!
  78. Patchwork families
  79. Helpbox
  80. Read It…
  81. Websites:
  82. Helplines:
  83. 10. Sad Stuff
  84. Bereavement
  85. When Someone is Ill
  86. Scary Stuff
  87. Broken Families
  88. Helpbox
  89. Read It…
  90. Websites:
  91. Helplines:
  92. Email:
  93. Write to:
  94. 11. Things That Don’t Help…
  95. Don’t Worry!
  96. Little White Lies
  97. Self-destruct
  98. Rebel, Rebel
  99. Looking for Love?
  100. Hurting Inside
  101. Food Wars
  102. Running Away
  103. Helpbox
  104. Read It…
  105. Websites:
  106. Helplines:
  107. Email:
  108. 12. … and Things That Do!
  109. Negotiate!
  110. Talk It Over
  111. Expert Help
  112. Feeling Understood
  113. Express Yourself!
  114. Get Moving!
  115. Believe It or Not…
  116. Back to Nature
  117. Good Stuff!
  118. The Fab Five
  119. Helpbox
  120. Check Out:
  121. Websites:
  122. Helplines:
  123. Inspiration Box Things to Help on Blue Days!

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First published 2009

Text copyright © Cathy Cassidy, 2009

Illustrations copyright © Cathy Cassidy, 2007, 2009

Additional illustrations copyright © Sara Flavell, 2008, 2009

Every effort has been made to trace the copyright holders of material produced on
pages 256–257. The publisher would like to hear from any copyright holder not acknowledged.

The moral right of the author/illustrator has been asserted

Except in the United States of America, this book is sold subject to the condition that it shall not, by way of trade or otherwise, be lent, re-sold, hired out, or otherwise circulated without the publisher’s prior consent in any form of binding or cover other than that in which it is published and without a similar condition including this condition being imposed on the subsequent purchaser

ISBN: 978-0-14-193922-3

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To my readers…

This one’s for you!

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Contents

1. Friends Forever?

Making Friends / Keeping Friends / Falling Out

2. Growing Up

Body Matters / Girl Talk / Skin Deep / Mixed-Up Feelings

3. Boys, Boys, Boys

First Crush / Taking Your Time / Love Hurts / Breaking Up

4. School Daze

School’s Cool! / Teacher’s Pet? / Teacher Trouble / Work It Out / School Blues

5. Beat Bullying

Don’t Pick On Me / Sticks and Stones / Speaking Out / An End to Bullying

6. Confidence Tricks

Accept Yourself / Making Friends With You / Look for the Good Stuff! / Get Happy! / Do it Anyway! / Get Lucky!

7. Being Yourself

Who Am I? / Style Matters / Let It Out / Peer Pressure / Role Models / Being Different / No Such Thing as Perfect

8. Dream On

Big Ideas / Fame at Last / Making It Happen

9. Family Matters

Super Strict? / Brothers and Sisters / Problem Parents… / … and Parent Problems! / Patchwork Families

10. Sad Stuff

Bereavement / When Someone is Ill / Scary Stuff / Broken Families

11. Things That Don’t Help

Don’t Worry! / Little White Lies / Self-destruct / Rebel Rebel / Looking for Love? / Hurting Inside / Food Wars / Running Away

12. … and Things That Do!

Negotiate! / Talk It Over / Expert Help / Feeling Understood / Express Yourself! / Get Moving! / Believe It or Not… / Back to Nature / Good Stuff! / The Fab Five

1. Friends Forever?

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Friendship is one of the most important things in our lives. It’s the glue that sticks us together through good times and bad. A real friend will be there for you through the best and the worst of times, loyal, caring, thoughtful, fun. Good friends are a little like family, and a best friend can often be the person who knows and understands you best in the world.

So, are friends forever?

Well, sometimes. At this stage in your life, you’re growing up, changing, working out who you really are… and sometimes, that means outgrowing old friends. It can take luck, hard work and effort on both sides to keep a friendship strong. And sometimes, no matter what you do, things fall apart…