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  1. Books by Cathy Cassidy
  2. Contents
  3. 1. Friends Forever?
  4. Making Friends
  5. Keeping Friends
  6. Falling Out
  7. Helpbox
  8. Read It…
  9. Websites:
  10. THE FRIENDSHIP CHARTER: 6 EASY STEPS TO MAKING A DIFFERENCE
  11. Cathy’s Books… Published by Puffin
  12. 2. Growing Up
  13. Body Matters
  14. Girl Talk
  15. Skin Deep
  16. Mixed-Up Feelings
  17. Helpbox
  18. Read It…
  19. Websites:
  20. Cathy’s Books… Published by Puffin
  21. 3. Boys, Boys, Boys
  22. First Crush
  23. Taking Your Time
  24. Love Hurts
  25. Breaking Up
  26. Helpbox
  27. Read It…
  28. 4. School Daze
  29. School’s Cool!
  30. Teacher’s Pet?
  31. Teacher Trouble
  32. Work It Out
  33. School Blues
  34. Helpbox
  35. Read It…
  36. Websites:
  37. 5. Beat Bullying
  38. Don’t Pick On Me
  39. Sticks and Stones
  40. Speaking Out
  41. An End to Bullying
  42. Helpbox
  43. Read It…
  44. Websites:
  45. Helplines:
  46. 6. Confidence Tricks
  47. Accept Yourself!
  48. Making Friends With You!
  49. Look for the Good Stuff!
  50. Get Happy!
  51. Do it Anyway!
  52. Get Lucky!
  53. Helpbox
  54. Read It…
  55. 7. Being Yourself
  56. Who Am I?
  57. Style Matters
  58. Let It Out
  59. Peer Pressure
  60. Role Models
  61. Being Different
  62. There’s No Such Thing as Perfect
  63. Helpbox
  64. Read It…
  65. Websites:
  66. 8. Dream On
  67. Big Ideas
  68. Fame at Last
  69. Making It Happen
  70. Helpbox
  71. Read It…
  72. Read It…
  73. 9. Family Matters
  74. Super Strict?
  75. Brothers and Sisters
  76. Problem Parents…
  77. … and Parent Problems!
  78. Patchwork families
  79. Helpbox
  80. Read It…
  81. Websites:
  82. Helplines:
  83. 10. Sad Stuff
  84. Bereavement
  85. When Someone is Ill
  86. Scary Stuff
  87. Broken Families
  88. Helpbox
  89. Read It…
  90. Websites:
  91. Helplines:
  92. Email:
  93. Write to:
  94. 11. Things That Don’t Help…
  95. Don’t Worry!
  96. Little White Lies
  97. Self-destruct
  98. Rebel, Rebel
  99. Looking for Love?
  100. Hurting Inside
  101. Food Wars
  102. Running Away
  103. Helpbox
  104. Read It…
  105. Websites:
  106. Helplines:
  107. Email:
  108. 12. … and Things That Do!
  109. Negotiate!
  110. Talk It Over
  111. Expert Help
  112. Feeling Understood
  113. Express Yourself!
  114. Get Moving!
  115. Believe It or Not…
  116. Back to Nature
  117. Good Stuff!
  118. The Fab Five
  119. Helpbox
  120. Check Out:
  121. Websites:
  122. Helplines:
  123. Inspiration Box Things to Help on Blue Days!

Skin Deep

Cathy

My skin gets really spotty just before period time, and my hair seems to be greasier too… it really bugs me!

Chloe, age 12

Hi Cathy

I know everyone gets teenage spots, but mine are beyond a joke – they’re really angry and red and sore. It’s not like I eat loads of chocolate or crisps – I don’t – and I’ve tried every lotion and cream around. Nothing seems to help. I have to wear really thick foundation to try to hide them. Will this make things worse?

Leah, age 13

Spots are a fact of life for many teens… your hormones are working overtime, and the skin is producing more oil than usual, which can lead to spots. Great, huh? For Chloe, an over-the-counter lotion designed to control spotty skin should help – look for one containing benzoyl peroxide for best results. Greasy hair can be a problem for the same kind of reasons – keep the oil at bay by washing hair daily using a gentle formula shampoo that won’t strip the hair.

Leah’s skin problems are more serious. She’s already tried over-the-counter treatments, with little success. Crisps and chocolate are not the healthiest foods on the planet, but there’s no evidence that cutting them out will chase away teenage acne… the occasional treat definitely won’t have any effect on your skin. As for hiding spots under a layer of foundation, if it helps Leah’s confidence a little, then fine, but she should choose an oil-free formula and cleanse her face religiously every night.

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Never squeeze spots – even with clean fingers – as this can cause scarring. To beat teen acne, Leah must see her doctor. He/she can offer lotions, gels or tablets to help sort the problem, though there is no quick fix. Whatever the treatment, Leah will need to give it at least three months before she can expect to see an improvement.

It’s important to keep going back to the doctor until the problem is sorted.

Can you help me, Cathy?

I have a really embarrassing problem… I seem to be sweating a lot. I use a bodyspray, but it doesn’t really help, and sometimes I actually get dark stains on my clothes. I’m worried that people will notice.

Amy, age 11

Cathy

Our friend has a problem with BO – she seems to wear the same school top for several days running, and she just smells really stale and sweaty. Some of the boys in class call her names behind her back, and even the teachers have noticed. How can we help her?

Grace & Priya, age 12

Little kids don’t sweat much, but once puberty sets in things change – big style. Underarm perspiration can be a problem, making you feel sticky and whiffy, and that’s not good news.

Grace and Priya’s friend – and Amy too – may be making some basic mistakes. Once you hit puberty, you need to shower every day, if possible, to stay fresh and confident, and if you can do this in the morning, better still. Dry off thoroughly and allow your body to cool down a little before applying antiperspirant deodorant to underarms. Note that a bodyspray is not the same thing – it’ll give you a spritz of perfume, but no protection from perspiration. Whether you use a spray or a roll-on, it needs to say antiperspirant deodorant on the front!