Letters to Cathy
Contents ( 123)
- Books by Cathy Cassidy
- Contents
- 1. Friends Forever?
- Making Friends
- Keeping Friends
- Falling Out
- Helpbox
- Read It…
- Websites:
- THE FRIENDSHIP CHARTER: 6 EASY STEPS TO MAKING A DIFFERENCE
- Cathy’s Books… Published by Puffin
- 2. Growing Up
- Body Matters
- Girl Talk
- Skin Deep
- Mixed-Up Feelings
- Helpbox
- Read It…
- Websites:
- Cathy’s Books… Published by Puffin
- 3. Boys, Boys, Boys
- First Crush
- Taking Your Time
- Love Hurts
- Breaking Up
- Helpbox
- Read It…
- 4. School Daze
- School’s Cool!
- Teacher’s Pet?
- Teacher Trouble
- Work It Out
- School Blues
- Helpbox
- Read It…
- Websites:
- 5. Beat Bullying
- Don’t Pick On Me
- Sticks and Stones
- Speaking Out
- An End to Bullying
- Helpbox
- Read It…
- Websites:
- Helplines:
- 6. Confidence Tricks
- Accept Yourself!
- Making Friends With You!
- Look for the Good Stuff!
- Get Happy!
- Do it Anyway!
- Get Lucky!
- Helpbox
- Read It…
- 7. Being Yourself
- Who Am I?
- Style Matters
- Let It Out
- Peer Pressure
- Role Models
- Being Different
- There’s No Such Thing as Perfect
- Helpbox
- Read It…
- Websites:
- 8. Dream On
- Big Ideas
- Fame at Last
- Making It Happen
- Helpbox
- Read It…
- Read It…
- 9. Family Matters
- Super Strict?
- Brothers and Sisters
- Problem Parents…
- … and Parent Problems!
- Patchwork families
- Helpbox
- Read It…
- Websites:
- Helplines:
- 10. Sad Stuff
- Bereavement
- When Someone is Ill
- Scary Stuff
- Broken Families
- Helpbox
- Read It…
- Websites:
- Helplines:
- Email:
- Write to:
- 11. Things That Don’t Help…
- Don’t Worry!
- Little White Lies
- Self-destruct
- Rebel, Rebel
- Looking for Love?
- Hurting Inside
- Food Wars
- Running Away
- Helpbox
- Read It…
- Websites:
- Helplines:
- Email:
- 12. … and Things That Do!
- Negotiate!
- Talk It Over
- Expert Help
- Feeling Understood
- Express Yourself!
- Get Moving!
- Believe It or Not…
- Back to Nature
- Good Stuff!
- The Fab Five
- Helpbox
- Check Out:
- Websites:
- Helplines:
- Inspiration Box Things to Help on Blue Days!

Hello…
Welcome to my first nonfiction book… which is really all about YOU! I think you’re going to like it!
I was an agony aunt on a young teen mag for twelve years, and always wanted to write a problem-solving book to help girls get through those difficult growing-up years. I never did it, and finally ‘retired’ from the agony aunting as my books had really taken off…
The trouble is, I get WAY more letters and emails now than I ever did as an agony aunt, from kids who identify with characters or situations in the stories. Although I do my best to help – I even created a special help page on my website, in conjunction with the fabulous ChildLine – it’s impossible to cover everything in one short email reply. A few readers suggested writing a book like this, and that seemed like the perfect answer… a growing-up guide for girls, Cathy-style!
As the letters and emails you’ve sent me over the last few years are obviously personal and confidential, for this book I have changed situations and details to protect your privacy. I’ve changed the names too, for obvious reasons; I flicked through my notebook and picked out some of the cool names ‘donated’ by readers at recent events, so if your name appears, thank you!!! (And sorry if I’ve ‘given’ you a tough problem to solve!)
To everyone who has shared their problems by letter or by email, thanks for trusting me, for being brave enough and smart enough to ask for help. Thanks for inspiring this book. Whatever your worries – whether it’s friends, family, boys, confidence, school or something else completely – I hope you will find some answers here!
Growing up is not a picnic… it can be tough, it can be testing, it can even turn your world upside down. I know, I was a teenager once too… and yes, I made just about every mistake in the book!!!
You know what, though? In spite of it all, life is good. Being a teen – or pre-teen – is pretty cool. You are on the edge of something truly amazing, creating a life for yourself from scratch. You’re a work in progress!
I hope this book can make it a little easier for you. Read it, and think about the ideas you find inside. Learn from your mistakes, get inspired, start dreaming, make some changes. Anything is possible, everything is still to play for… and yes, dreams really can come true.
That’s a promise!
Cathy
xxx
Books by Cathy Cassidy
For older readers
DIZZY
DRIFTWOOD
INDIGO BLUE
SCARLETT
SUNDAE GIRL
LUCKY STAR
GINGERSNAPS
ANGEL CAKE
DREAMS AND DOODLES DAYBOOK
For younger readers
SHINE ON, DAIZY STAR

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