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Letters to Cathy

Cathy Cassidy
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  1. Books by Cathy Cassidy
  2. Contents
  3. 1. Friends Forever?
  4. Making Friends
  5. Keeping Friends
  6. Falling Out
  7. Helpbox
  8. Read It…
  9. Websites:
  10. THE FRIENDSHIP CHARTER: 6 EASY STEPS TO MAKING A DIFFERENCE
  11. Cathy’s Books… Published by Puffin
  12. 2. Growing Up
  13. Body Matters
  14. Girl Talk
  15. Skin Deep
  16. Mixed-Up Feelings
  17. Helpbox
  18. Read It…
  19. Websites:
  20. Cathy’s Books… Published by Puffin
  21. 3. Boys, Boys, Boys
  22. First Crush
  23. Taking Your Time
  24. Love Hurts
  25. Breaking Up
  26. Helpbox
  27. Read It…
  28. 4. School Daze
  29. School’s Cool!
  30. Teacher’s Pet?
  31. Teacher Trouble
  32. Work It Out
  33. School Blues
  34. Helpbox
  35. Read It…
  36. Websites:
  37. 5. Beat Bullying
  38. Don’t Pick On Me
  39. Sticks and Stones
  40. Speaking Out
  41. An End to Bullying
  42. Helpbox
  43. Read It…
  44. Websites:
  45. Helplines:
  46. 6. Confidence Tricks
  47. Accept Yourself!
  48. Making Friends With You!
  49. Look for the Good Stuff!
  50. Get Happy!
  51. Do it Anyway!
  52. Get Lucky!
  53. Helpbox
  54. Read It…
  55. 7. Being Yourself
  56. Who Am I?
  57. Style Matters
  58. Let It Out
  59. Peer Pressure
  60. Role Models
  61. Being Different
  62. There’s No Such Thing as Perfect
  63. Helpbox
  64. Read It…
  65. Websites:
  66. 8. Dream On
  67. Big Ideas
  68. Fame at Last
  69. Making It Happen
  70. Helpbox
  71. Read It…
  72. Read It…
  73. 9. Family Matters
  74. Super Strict?
  75. Brothers and Sisters
  76. Problem Parents…
  77. … and Parent Problems!
  78. Patchwork families
  79. Helpbox
  80. Read It…
  81. Websites:
  82. Helplines:
  83. 10. Sad Stuff
  84. Bereavement
  85. When Someone is Ill
  86. Scary Stuff
  87. Broken Families
  88. Helpbox
  89. Read It…
  90. Websites:
  91. Helplines:
  92. Email:
  93. Write to:
  94. 11. Things That Don’t Help…
  95. Don’t Worry!
  96. Little White Lies
  97. Self-destruct
  98. Rebel, Rebel
  99. Looking for Love?
  100. Hurting Inside
  101. Food Wars
  102. Running Away
  103. Helpbox
  104. Read It…
  105. Websites:
  106. Helplines:
  107. Email:
  108. 12. … and Things That Do!
  109. Negotiate!
  110. Talk It Over
  111. Expert Help
  112. Feeling Understood
  113. Express Yourself!
  114. Get Moving!
  115. Believe It or Not…
  116. Back to Nature
  117. Good Stuff!
  118. The Fab Five
  119. Helpbox
  120. Check Out:
  121. Websites:
  122. Helplines:
  123. Inspiration Box Things to Help on Blue Days!
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Hello…

Welcome to my first nonfiction book… which is really all about YOU! I think you’re going to like it!

I was an agony aunt on a young teen mag for twelve years, and always wanted to write a problem-solving book to help girls get through those difficult growing-up years. I never did it, and finally ‘retired’ from the agony aunting as my books had really taken off…

The trouble is, I get WAY more letters and emails now than I ever did as an agony aunt, from kids who identify with characters or situations in the stories. Although I do my best to help – I even created a special help page on my website, in conjunction with the fabulous ChildLine – it’s impossible to cover everything in one short email reply. A few readers suggested writing a book like this, and that seemed like the perfect answer… a growing-up guide for girls, Cathy-style!

As the letters and emails you’ve sent me over the last few years are obviously personal and confidential, for this book I have changed situations and details to protect your privacy. I’ve changed the names too, for obvious reasons; I flicked through my notebook and picked out some of the cool names ‘donated’ by readers at recent events, so if your name appears, thank you!!! (And sorry if I’ve ‘given’ you a tough problem to solve!)

To everyone who has shared their problems by letter or by email, thanks for trusting me, for being brave enough and smart enough to ask for help. Thanks for inspiring this book. Whatever your worries – whether it’s friends, family, boys, confidence, school or something else completely – I hope you will find some answers here!

Growing up is not a picnic… it can be tough, it can be testing, it can even turn your world upside down. I know, I was a teenager once too… and yes, I made just about every mistake in the book!!!

You know what, though? In spite of it all, life is good. Being a teen – or pre-teen – is pretty cool. You are on the edge of something truly amazing, creating a life for yourself from scratch. You’re a work in progress!

I hope this book can make it a little easier for you. Read it, and think about the ideas you find inside. Learn from your mistakes, get inspired, start dreaming, make some changes. Anything is possible, everything is still to play for… and yes, dreams really can come true.

That’s a promise!

Cathy

xxx

Books by Cathy Cassidy

For older readers

DIZZY

DRIFTWOOD

INDIGO BLUE

SCARLETT

SUNDAE GIRL

LUCKY STAR

GINGERSNAPS

ANGEL CAKE

DREAMS AND DOODLES DAYBOOK

For younger readers

SHINE ON, DAIZY STAR

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