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Chapters (84)
  1. Chapter one
  2. Chapter two
  3. Chapter three
  4. Chapter four
  5. Chapter five
  6. Chapter six
  7. Chapter seven
  8. Chapter eight
  9. Chapter nine
  10. Chapter ten
  11. Chapter eleven
  12. Chapter twelve
  13. Chapter thirteen
  14. Chapter fourteen
  15. Chapter fifteen
  16. Chapter sixteen
  17. Chapter seventeen
  18. Chapter eighteen
  19. Chapter nineteen
  20. Chapter twenty
  21. Chapter twenty-one
  22. Chapter twenty-two
  23. Chapter twenty-three
  24. Chapter twenty-four
  25. Chapter twenty-five
  26. Chapter twenty-six
  27. Chapter twenty-seven
  28. Chapter twenty-eight
  29. Chapter twenty-nine
  30. Chapter thirty
  31. Chapter thirty-one
  32. Chapter thirty-two
  33. Chapter thirty-three
  34. Chapter thirty-four
  35. Chapter thirty-five
  36. Chapter thirty-six
  37. Chapter thirty-seven
  38. Chapter thirty-eight
  39. Chapter thirty-nine
  40. Chapter forty
  41. Chapter forty-one
  42. Chapter forty-two
  43. Chapter forty-three
  44. Chapter forty-four
  45. Chapter forty-five
  46. Chapter forty-six
  47. Chapter forty-seven
  48. Chapter forty-eight
  49. Chapter forty-nine
  50. Chapter fifty
  51. Chapter fifty-one
  52. Chapter fifty-two
  53. Chapter fifty-three
  54. Chapter fifty-four
  55. Chapter fifty-five
  56. Chapter fifty-six
  57. Chapter fifty-seven
  58. Chapter fifty-eight
  59. Chapter fifty-nine
  60. Chapter sixty
  61. Chapter sixty-one
  62. Chapter sixty-two
  63. Chapter sixty-three
  64. Chapter sixty-four
  65. Chapter sixty-five
  66. Chapter sixty-six
  67. Chapter sixty-seven
  68. Chapter sixty-eight
  69. Chapter sixty-nine
  70. Chapter seventy
  71. Chapter seventy-one
  72. Chapter seventy-two
  73. Chapter seventy-three
  74. Chapter seventy-four
  75. Chapter seventy-five
  76. Chapter seventy-six
  77. Chapter seventy-seven
  78. Chapter seventy-eight
  79. Chapter seventy-nine
  80. Chapter eighty
  81. Chapter eighty-one
  82. Chapter eighty-two
  83. Chapter eighty-three
  84. Chapter eighty-four

There’s a simplicity in his life that I’m starting to envy. And I’m also full of admiration at how he’s been able to adapt to it. Coming from California, it must have been a bit of a culture shock to say the least. As much as it seems appealing, I’m not sure that I could give everything up for this. I think I’m just too grounded in consumerism to change my ways now, yet Dean seems to be the least materialistic person I’ve ever met. Take his house. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with it. It’s perfectly adequate. It has four solid walls, a roof, a fire and a bed. A nice verandah that doubles as a kitchen. But that’s all it has. There’s no gas cooker, no fridge, no electricity, no bath, no wall-to-wall laminate flooring, no CD player, no modern conveniences at all. No convenience! Unless you count the hole in the ground outside, of course. How many people used to a house stuffed full of Western comforts could cope with that on a permanent basis?

I finish my story and, led by my biggest fan, the children applaud—even the teenagers. How enchanting they are compared to our dull-eyed, bored kids. They cluster round me to show me their exercise books and, from what I’ve seen of my nieces’ and nephews’ homework, their curriculum looks like a scaled-down version of ours, which on their meagre resources is pretty impressive. When we finally manage to prise ourselves away, we leave behind a group of grinning faces, waving madly, and we wander out through the playground, shooing a few chickens out of our way until we’re back on the street again.

‘They’re great kids,’ Dean says. ‘They have so little, but they want to learn so much.’

‘They’re adorable.’

‘I teach them English,’ he says shyly. ‘And math. And probably bad habits.’

‘They obviously love you.’

He squeezes my hand briefly and rather furtively. ‘I’m easy to love.’

‘I can vouch for that,’ I say with a smile.

We carry on down the street, past houses where the women sit outside on straw mats in chattering groups, tiny babies cuddled on their laps while they sift through the harvested rice, carefully picking out each precious grain by hand. None of them look as worse for wear as we do. They giggle and shout greetings as we go by.

‘We’ll be the talk of the village,’ Dean advises me. I expect he is anyway.

At the end of the street, standing rather grandly, there’s one posh building in the village that turns out to belong to the conservation project that Dean works for. It’s painted white and has a roof tiled with wood shingles. The building is surrounded by small plots of cultivated land.