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Chapters (22)
  1. Dedications
  2. Disclaimer
  3. Preface
  4. Introduction
  5. Chapter One
  6. Chapter Two
  7. Chapter Three
  8. Chapter Four
  9. Chapter Five
  10. Chapter Six
  11. Chapter Seven
  12. Chapter Eight
  13. Chapter Nine
  14. Chapter Ten
  15. Chapter Eleven
  16. Chapter Twelve
  17. Chapter Thirteen
  18. Chapter Fourteen
  19. Chapter Fifteen
  20. Chapter Sixteen
  21. Appendix A
  22. Appendix B

Female Domination has always been a male desire tucked away in the depths of his mind and expressed in his sexual thoughts and urges. The dominant nature of woman usually lies dormant due to the programming a girl receives from a patriarchal society. But the submissive desire of man is easily ignited and brought to the forefront of his mind through his sexuality. It is only a matter of time when the male will try to introduce his fantasy to be sexually dominated to a member of the female gender.

Some men will have the courage to confess this desire to their wife or girlfriend but most men will elect to confide in a stranger, like a professional dominant woman or a phone domination service. That way he can pay for domination and still remain anonymous thus not risking rejection by family or society.

With the liberation of the female and the societal empowerment of the female, men are beginning to feel more at ease confessing to their female partners a desire to submit to her in the bedroom. Some men choose a wise approach and take small steps to slowly seduce and awaken the dominant nature of the female. Others get impatient and spill their deepest secrets on a woman who is not prepared to hear such confessions. This leads to conflict and strife as the woman misunderstands and sees her man as a pervert. The male who wisely seduces his wife’s dominant nature, has much more success, as he shows her the advantages of being the dominant partner within a male/female relationship.

Chapter Four

The Seduction of the Female Dominant Nature

You have put yourself in Fortune’s power; now you must be content with the ways of your Mistress. If you try to stop the force of her turning wheel, you are the most foolish man alive. (Boethius, “The Consolation of Philosophy”, c520)

What does the submissive male do who is in a relationship with a woman who has yet to come into her dominance or who is blinded to the societal evolution due to her traditions and upbringing? Society is changing but the submissive male is living his life in the now. The submissive male desires to submit to his wife or girlfriend of today. So what advice do I give these men when they open up about their submissive desires? Let me finish the story of Henry Adams who came to visit me in 1998.

The advice I gave to Henry Adams is the same advice I give to every submissive man who confesses to me his desire to submit to his wife or girlfriend. First of all, I was able to get Henry to see that his desires were very common within males and I was able to get Henry to be at peace with his submissive desires by convincing him that he was not a pervert.