Submission and slavery in this lifestyle is a willing submission and a willing slavery. It is the man laying down himself for his Queen and Goddess. It is an act of devotion to the female gender and a revelation within the man that the female is superior to him. Nothing is forced nor can be. It is a condition of the heart. Female Domination is all about Loving Female Authority and the continuing societal evolution toward Female rule. This lifestyle has enhanced many marriages and many female/male relationships.

Some say that Female Domination is only about sex, as if sex was not important. Sex is much more than a bodily function and the female domination lifestyle is much more than sex. Sex builds intimacy. Sex is about relationships and about marriage. Sex is two people becoming one.

Sex is about romance and love. Sex is about commitment and bonding together. Sex is fun and God created it to be fun. Sex is important and Female Domination is about more than just sex. Female domination is sexual, mental, emotional, social, and spiritual.

It takes so much more trust and openness to share with each other the most hidden secrets and desires within one's soul. Too many married couples must hide their desires from each other. How sad that people hide their true selves from the one that they have chosen to spend their lives with. Female Domination is all about the sharing and the fulfilling of both the submissive male's desires and the dominant female's desires.

When done in love, it is simply beautiful.

Appendix A

The Psychoanalysis of the submissive male

For Couples Only:

Ladies, if you want to get started in the Female Domination lifestyle but do not know where to begin, perhaps this exercise can assist you. When I met a new client/patient, I first took on the role of Dominatrix to arouse his submissive nature and to break him of his inhibitions in order to get him to open up to me. I would recommend that you prepare for your mental examination by first getting your husband or submissive male in a state of total submission.

Dress in your most sexy, yet dominant outfit. Have him get totally naked before you. Then dominate him to get him into a submissive frame of mind. If you do not yet know which triggers will stimulate his submission, then perhaps you could start with an erotic spanking. If he responds to verbal humiliation, than by all means verbally humiliate him as you administer the spanking. You could humiliate him about being a lowly male or humiliate him for having too small of a penis. Don’t be afraid to be tough, play the bitch.