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Chapters (22)
  1. Dedications
  2. Disclaimer
  3. Preface
  4. Introduction
  5. Chapter One
  6. Chapter Two
  7. Chapter Three
  8. Chapter Four
  9. Chapter Five
  10. Chapter Six
  11. Chapter Seven
  12. Chapter Eight
  13. Chapter Nine
  14. Chapter Ten
  15. Chapter Eleven
  16. Chapter Twelve
  17. Chapter Thirteen
  18. Chapter Fourteen
  19. Chapter Fifteen
  20. Chapter Sixteen
  21. Appendix A
  22. Appendix B

The wife or woman who enacts the Mommy role enjoys the intoxicating sensation of complete power over her grown male baby. Few males are as readily dominated as the adult baby. Moreover, in this fantasy the Mommy and baby are unusually close and intimate. If the Dominant Female has never had children of her own, this sort of role-playing (and in some cases lifestyle) affords her the chance to release and develop more of her nurturing nature. Some women really enjoy this activity as it fulfills a part of them. One thing is for certain, Infantilism will definitely form a powerful and intimate bond between the Dominant Wife and her submissive husband. It will elevate the woman to an authority position and the man will look at his wife as not only his life partner, but as also his superior guardian. As Melissa has discovered, this can cause a real power exchange and give the woman a real advantage within the marriage.

Chapter Fifteen

Leather Sex: Fetishism and BDSM

One of these days these Boots are gonna walk all over you. (Nancy Sinatra, “These Boots Are Made For Walkin”) Sometimes love don´t feel like it should, You make it hurt so good. (John Cougar Mellencamp and G.M. Green, “Hurts So Good”)

A man is so visually image oriented, that the mere viewing of a woman in fetish clothing can bring out his submissive nature. There was some research done on this. Many years ago, I read an article in a Fetish publication about a research project done by professional dominant women where they measured the level of submission in men. What they did was they gave each client that visited them a scale ranging from 1 to 10, with 1 being a little submissive and 10 being extremely submissive.

The submissive man would verbally tell the dominant woman what number he felt after she performed various D&S activities on him. What the dominant women found was that they could get a man to go from 1 to 6 or 7 simply by putting on a fetish outfit. The sight of a woman dressed in a sexy leather outfit or a sexy latex outfit caused these men to become weak. This makes sense from a psychological standpoint because men are so visually oriented. That is why pornography is more popular with men than with women. Men can become extremely aroused (or submissive) by mere sight. So if a woman wants to take her man to subspace so she can more easily have her way with him, she will get him there much faster if she dons a fetish outfit.

Another advantage of the fetish outfit is the effect it can have on the dominant woman. A woman who puts on a fetish outfit is basically putting on power. This is particularly true for beginners in this lifestyle.