Even macho and overly masculine men will show their softer side around a woman whom they are interested in forming a lasting relationship. Men become selfless and will agree to do whatever the woman wants to do, just to be near her. But once they become married, this all stops. The male usually reverts back to his old ways and becomes selfish and begins to take the woman for granted. He hangs around his old friends again and he watches lots of television, ignoring the love of his life. He becomes cheap and the flowers and the gifts stop. He begins to refuse to do things with his wife and refuses to visit her family and friends. Everything becomes a fight and an argument. Then there is the sex. Sex use to last all night and be so exciting but now it has become boring and fast. Once the man gets his sexual release, it's time to go to sleep. Forget about the female. After all, bringing her to orgasm is too much work. What happened to the passion? What happened to the man of the courtship?

What happened is that the female didn't realize how she had him under her spell. Her female beauty and her sexuality had captured the male and he fell for her. He would do anything for her during the courtship. She didn't realize it at the time, but she was the dominant one and he was the submissive one during the courtship. She didn't have to know about D&S or Female Domination as her sexual energy and female ways naturally caused the man to become submissive towards her. For a short time, his macho ways and male pride was overcome by her female power.

However, once the two of them were married or entered into a serious relationship, his male pride and societies ways caused him to become the dominant one and she surrendered that power and the spell was broken.

Now he expects her to be the good little wife and he expects her to obey him. He starts to call the shots and the euphoria is over, for the both of them.

That power is still within the married woman. As a matter of fact, she only used a little of her sexuality and power during the courtship. There is much more power within her that if released, will not only bring back the man that she fell in love with, but will drive him into total submission to her. Not just her husband either, but all men will sense her female power and they will either desire to serve her or they will be afraid of her. Some women recognize their sexual and female power but other women need to have that dominant nature seduced and brought to the forefront by a man’s submissive nature. There are many more men who realize that they are submissive than women who realize that they should be in charge.