I pointed out to Henry that the many ads in DDI and the thousands of Dominatrix ads on the Internet demonstrated how many men are just like him and how there is a hunger within the male gender for Female Domination. The professional Dominatrix is simply filling the need that exists within a male gender that is too afraid to come clean with their wives about their submissive desires.

Once I sat Henry’s mind at ease, I then proceeded to give him some practical advice about how he could introduce the Female Domination lifestyle to his wife. I explained to Henry that what he really desired was to submit to the woman he loved. I was able to get Henry to understand what true submission is really about. True submission is not looking inward at getting your own fantasies and desires fulfilled but true submission is to serve a woman in a selfless manner. For only the man who serves a woman in a manner that the woman desires will experience the submissive fulfillment that he has been seeking.

The professional Dominatrix is only a temporary submissive fix and not permanently fulfilling because the exchange of money causes the Dominatrix to focus on her clients needs instead of the male client focusing on the woman’s needs. What Henry needed to do was to seduce his wife’s dominant nature and thus liberate the dominant Genie from her bottle, not by buying her a leather outfit and a whip, but by genuinely serving her needs. I explained that the fetish outfits and the D&S may indeed manifest later but that was not to be his focus if he wanted to experience true Female Domination.

Henry took my advice and began to focus on his wife’s needs. Henry channeled his submissive desires into serving his wife Doris. The first thing that Henry did was he stopped seeing professional Mistresses, he stopped calling phone services that offered phone domination and he quit buying FemDom magazines and videos behind his wife’s back. Henry began to view his money as his wife’s money. He changed his attitude and renewed his mind to the fact that he worked for his wife and that his paycheck really belonged to her.

Doris and Henry had been married for fifteen years. It was a good marriage but over the past five or six years, the romance had pretty much gone out of their relationship. Doris is a beautiful woman, outgoing and full of life. Henry adored her but like most husbands, he had taken her for granted. This began to change with Henry’s new attitude.