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For example, one time I had John read the novel “Venus in Furs” and he had to underline the passages in the book that spoke to his submissive nature. The author was able to convey to the reader through the character of Severin what goes through a submissive man’s mind when he is being dominated and whipped. I had John underline any passages that he felt related to how he felt when I disciplined him. Once he was finished with the book, I read it and underlined the passages that spoke to me as a dominant woman.
The next discipline session we had, I incorporated “Venus in Furs”. I secured John to our bed, face down, with the wrist and ankle cuffs I keep tied to our bedposts. After my usual warm-up session with my soft, deerskin floggers (I like to use two on him at the same time, flogging him with a rhythmic pace), I began to read the passages that he had underlined in the book, while I continued to whip him. I changed to my riding crop and later to my cat-o-nine tail whip as I continued to read the erotic words from “Venus in Furs”. It was an incredibly erotic experience for us both. John kept growing more excited with each passage and the more excited I got, the harder I would whip him. The more excited he became, the more he could take from me. We have a safe word but John went deep into subspace and did not use his word. I read from the passages I had underlined as I switched to my Spencer paddle (a paddle with holes) and eventually to my cane. This session lasted for well over an hour and it led to a night of deep intimacy and romance.
It is not uncommon for my discipline sessions with John to last well over an hour. We have gone two hours and even longer. I drag them out and most times we talk very little during these discipline sessions. There is a calm and a quiet and we both drift off into our roles. I discipline him with love and he receives his discipline with love. The only times I get verbally forceful with him is when I want to point out an area that he needs improvement or when I tell him about an upcoming event that I know he will not be enthusiastic about (like me going away to visit my family or one of them coming to visit us). These discipline sessions provide me with the perfect venue to get my loving husband to agree to whatever I want.”
Crystal and John are perfect examples of how Female Domination and loving discipline can be a romantic experience. Crystal will be the first to admit that the years since she embraced FemDom are by the far the best years of her marriage, both socially and sexually.