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If that does not work, I go to another weapon that I know he cannot resist. I will walk over to him, hug him and kiss him. I will not say a word but I will lead him by the hand to our bed. I will lay him face up on the bed and I will proceed to sit my tush on his face and I will order him to kiss and worship it. This will cause most men to melt into submission.
The face sitting also prevents him from speaking, so that will defuse the argument at least momentarily until his submission overtakes his anger.
Regardless which approach I use, my goal is to get him into a submissive state. Then I bring reconciliation by telling him that I love him. After that, I might make him confess his place in our marriage. I will make him tell me how I rule over him and how I have authority over him.
Once I see that he is in a submissive state, only then will I re-visit the argument by making him apologize to me. Again, I do not seek this apology outside of our D&S session or else it might re-kindle the argument.
After he apologizes, I will tie him face down on the bed and now it is time to punish him for his behavior. He is already in a submissive mood so I will give him a spanking and that is when I let him know how upset he made me and he will feel my displeasure through my loving but firm discipline. My husband says that he can feel the hurt and anger leaving his body as I discipline him. Afterwards, I will hug him and love on him as we confess our love for each other. It works like a charm.
Once a woman understands the correlation between love and discipline, D&S and specifically Female Domination will seem less unusual and will begin to make more sense. It is the female gender that possesses the ability to discipline and punish in a loving manner. Grown men never out grow the need or the desire for loving discipline at the hands of a woman. While most men desire some form of correction from the female gender, I believe that the less discipline a man had from a woman when he was a child, the stronger the desire for discipline will be when he is an adult.
As our society goes away from the spanking and physical disciplining of children, I am finding that men desire to be spanked even more as adults because that important part of nurturing is missing from their upbringing.
I really believe that physical punishment (done in love) is an important part of the nurturing process that boys need and men still crave it as adults inside of their psyche.