A temper is an outward expression of an underlying insecurity. A man with a temper has issues within him that when touched, will cause him to act childish. D&S is a wonderful lifestyle for a man with a temper because he needs the firm discipline of a loving woman to give him an alternative outlet to release that pent up anger. The whip used correctly can drive anger out of a man if he will surrender to his wife’s female power during the discipline session.

Keep in mind that childish behavior often needs to be dealt with in a parental manner. A child needs lots of nurturing and reassurance as well as discipline. When a husband becomes angry and expresses his childish behavior, the worst thing a woman you can do is to express anger back at him. A wise woman who understands female domination will stay calm and under control, knowing that she will have her chance for retribution.

If she becomes angry, then it is best that she remove herself from her husband’s presence until she cools off. Two angry people should not be in the same room. That is always a condition for trouble. A wise woman will walk away and collect herself before returning to deal with her grown male child. Just as a woman should never discipline her children when she is angry, the dominant wife should never discipline her husband when she is angry.

A wise woman will walk away from him, collect herself and return with a strategy. That strategy depends on her husband's submissive nature.

Through the female domination lifestyle, she has come to know him better than he even knows himself. What is it that stirs his submission?

Does he have a leather fetish? Does he have a foot fetish? What is it that turns him submissive? The wise wife will get his submission to overpower his anger so she can reconcile with him first, then she can punish him for his temper tantrum.

I know my husband has a strong leather fetish. After I cool down, I might dress in a sexy, leather outfit, return to him and order him to his knees. I can see the struggle within him as his hurt and anger wants to continue the fight but his submission wants to bow before me. I love watching that internal struggle within him. I will order him again in my most bitchy voice to bow before me and to kiss my boots or feet. Notice, I do not mention what we were fighting about. I approach it as a regular D&S session. Usually, my husband will submit and once he is kissing my boots or feet, his anger begins to leave his body and passion and submission will overtake him.