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Our core nature is also preloaded through genetics. Our temperament and personality is pre-loaded as is our skin color, eye color, hair color, and body type. Nature also preloads sexual programming in our minds thus sensual touch causes sexual arousal. The caressing of the skin feels pleasurable, as does a warm bath, as does touching one’s genitalia. God has created us to have certain given responses to certain forms of stimulation. This programming exists in our brains and it is preprogrammed.
On top of this preprogramming goes all the data that our senses collect throughout our lifetime. Males are pre-wired to be visually oriented and Females to be sensually oriented. Thus, men react more to sight and women to touch within the arena of sexuality. This gives women an incredible advantage sexually because the female form is a masterpiece of nature and mortal man has great difficulty controlling his sexual urges when he sees a woman naked or scantily clothed. The data enters into his eyes, goes to his brain, is processed, and his programming sends a signal to his genitals causing the penis to become stimulated, without any actual physical contact.
A man is born with the seeds of submission (a preloaded program) and that core nature is further built upon through childhood experiences with female authority figures. A boy might be bathed by a woman, spanked by a woman, scolded by a female authority figure, nurtured and loved by female authority figures and all of these interactions goes into the male psyche. As the male enters puberty, the beauty of the female captivates him and his sexuality begins to develop according to his core nature and his childhood experiences.
In addition, the female has a natural sexual power that permeates from her and this power (be it the latent power of Eve or nature’s way of procreating) captivates men. The sexual desire of human beings has been called animalistic but unlike animals, the sexuality of humans is not instinctive. The sexuality of humans is about more than just physical sex.
It is also spiritual and mental. Desire begins in the mind but desire is based on what is in the heart. Human sexuality is about romance, love, commitment, partnership and yes, dominance and submission. The need for love, romance and sex is stronger than the need for food, air, water and sleep. While a person needs the later things for survival and can exist with out the former things from a physical perspective, from an emotional perspective the desire for love, romance and sex is more important to the condition of the human soul.
Unlike animals, humans possess the ability to imagine, dream and create with thought. Thought is faster than the speed of light because a person can travel to a place in their mind simply by thinking. While their body does not leave its current location, the imagination can go anywhere.