Humans can dream big dreams and create buildings, cities, and civilizations. The physical follows the mental thus each creation begins in the mind in the form of thought before the physical reality is realized.

While the great feats of mankind is seen in big buildings and large cities, the greatest creations are those that cannot be touched with human hands but are rather touched by the human spirit. Music, poetry, literature are all creative thoughts transferred to the hand via the spirit by way of the brain.

The spiritual comes first and then the natural. Just as God created the Heavens and the Earth first through thought, then the spoken word and finally through the works of His/Her hands, so does humankind create first through thought, then word and finally through the works of the hands. The species of Man is not an animal for an animal cannot design a building or build a city or compose music. Likewise, sex between a human female and a human male is not purely physical. Sex exists in the spiritual realm first, then the mental and finally the physical. Those who only practice a physical form of sex are only scratching the surface of the possibilities, for the soul of woman and the soul of man is creative.

The brain contains both the core nature of a person and the totality of the person based on that person’s life. Just as the scriptures describe sex between Adam and Eve as Adam “knowing” Eve, so should sex be between a husband and a wife today. To “know” someone is not purely physical contact. To “know” someone is to tap into the vast resources of the psyche, to touch them at their core nature and to find those triggers that make each person unique and who they are. D&S provides the vehicle for such a sexuality because D&S is all about the sex of the minds. It takes truly knowing someone to have a D&S session with them.

A woman cannot effectively dominate a man she does not know or understands. That is why the Pro Dom must have a client fill out a questionnaire. She needs to learn about her male client, so she can know a little about him to ensure the D&S session is going to be fulfilling to him.

Within the psyche of the male is the desire to be dominated thus D&S play becomes sex of the psyches between a dominant woman and a submissive male. D&S is about a power exchange and the surrender of the masculine and macho ways of a male over to the feminine ways of the female. Women permeate a sexual power and the beauty that is the feminine touches man at his core nature.