I have found that the more laid back and soft-spoken Professional Doms are the most popular. While some men fantasize about a strong and aggressive woman overpowering them and having her way with them, far more men fantasize about a mysterious and confident woman seducing them with her sexuality and than enslaving them with her mysterious female power. Men are attracted to a confident and sophisticated woman, whether she is out going or laid back. Domination is all about attitude. If a woman believes she is superior to men and walks in that authority, men cannot resist her no matter what her temperament.

The primary reason outgoing women make the most likely candidates to embrace the Female Domination lifestyle is because they are already accustomed to being aggressive with men but still struggle with the roles that society has shackled them with. Once that barrier is removed through willing male submission, an out going woman usually runs with this lifestyle much like a caged animal who has been freed. A woman who is a Choleric may be more open for physical domination play such as corporal punishment whereas a Phlegmatic woman may enjoy softer and sensual D&S activities better. Nevertheless, one should not mistake the softness of a woman for weakness or submission. Some of the most dominant and slightly sadistic women I have known were Phlegmatic.

They may not like to forcefully take a man but they enjoy the psychological domination play like the teasing and denial of the male, forced feminization of the male and even enforced chastity of the male.

These are generalizations of course, and it would be a mistake to assume that a woman would prefer a certain D&S activity over another simply based on her temperament. Many aggressive and out going women also enjoy softer and sensual D&S activities and likewise a laid back woman may indeed love administering corporal punishment on her man. One of the beautiful things about D&S is that it allows an arena where people can experiment with different sides of their personalities and natures.

One never knows what hidden desire is within until that desire is touched, unlocked and freed through experimentation and exploration. A person may not be able to change their temperament but a person may indeed free a part of their personality that was previously locked up due to inhibition and fear.