Henry took my advice and started out slowly. Henry began by treating his wife like a Queen. He opened doors for her, pulled out her chair at dinner, and acted like a real gentleman around her. Henry brought her flowers and gifts of appreciation on a regular basis. Doris became most appreciative of this new attention and her warm reaction to his warm actions re-kindled the romance in their marriage.

Like so many other husbands, Henry had developed the bad habit of ignoring his wife and would go straight to the television or the Internet when he got home from the office, but not anymore. He now focused on ways to serve his wife. Doris worked as a saleslady in a department store and was on her feet most of the day. When she came home from a hard day’s work, Henry got in the mode of serving his Queen. He would kneel at her feet, remove her shoes and give her a tender-loving foot massage.

It didn’t take Doris long at all to learn to relax and receive this loving submission from her husband. On some nights, Henry would draw his wife a bubble bath and would bathe and pamper her. Henry loved fondling his wife’s beautiful naked body as he bathed her with his soapy hands. After the bath, he would towel her off, blow dry and brush her hair while she sat in the vanity chair in their bedroom. After tending to her personal needs, he would offer to give her a back rub or a full body massage. Doris began to wallow in pleasure and she could not believe this sudden change in her husband. All of this attention reminded her of their courtship when Henry would do anything for her or go anywhere with her, just to be near her. Many of these nights of pampering ended in sex with one noticeable difference in their newly ignited sex life. Henry focused on Doris’ pleasure. Henry got in the habit of orally servicing his wife and focusing on her orgasms, and not his. Henry got in the habit of asking for permission to have intercourse with his wife and when she allowed it, Henry would ask Doris for permission to climax. Doris always obliged when Henry asked for such permission, but she began to enjoy the fact that the sex was centering on her pleasure and her desires.

Henry also began to do the chores around the house that he knew his wife wanted him to do. Doris would have to beg Henry and nag Henry to mow the lawn, wash the cars and to put out the trash on garbage night.