In this dream, Peter Pan was a redheaded female and she would come to his room, take him by the hand, fly him up into the clouds and lay him in this pink cloud made of a sticky Jello-like substance. In his dream, James would struggle to get free but he could not move. The female Peter Pan would stare at him and enjoy watching her male captive struggle until he eventually surrendered to her. James was only a child but even as a child, he desired to be dominated by a woman. He did not seek this out. He had never viewed pornography or read any FemDom literature. He was an innocent boy, yet the desire to submit to the female gender was birthed within him and found its expressions through this dream.

Peter Pan was played many times by women on both television and the stage. Sandy Duncan played Peter Pan for years. Red hair represents dominance, as many redheaded women are aggressive and feisty. The cloud represents a state of subspace. The color of the cloud, pink, represents the feminine. The Jello substance represents bondage and fetishism. James knew of none of these things as a child yet he had this reoccurring dream.

James recalled another dream he had as a child. In this dream, he was a patient in a hospital bed and this redheaded nurse came to him and removed all of her clothes. She then climbed on top of him and sat her bare bottom on his face. He could not move and he struggled to get free but to no avail. He finally surrendered to her and he felt at peace.

James is a spiritual man who grew up in a Christian home. Later in life he married a Christian woman who had an out-going personality. He confessed to her about his submissive desires and after struggling with the concept of Female Domination, she finally embraced the lifestyle and took control over James and her marriage. Her name is Kathy and she is a redhead. She also once played Peter Pan in a school play and she now works as a nurse. A coincidence? Perhaps but Kathy and James like to think that Female Domination was their destiny.

Sometimes the desire to be dominated by a woman can become extreme and occupy a man’s thoughts to the point where he becomes unproductive in life. Jeremy experienced this when his submissive nature was triggered from reading an article in an Adult magazine. Jeremy explains.