Then once you have him to that magical place of submission, change your demeanor. Become soft, hold him, kiss him, and love him. Find a comfortable bed or couch and have him lay with his head on your lap as you begin to softly question him about his past. When he gets into some real deep, personal areas, I would recommend that you use your sexuality. Allow him to suck your breasts and allow him to touch you in your most intimate areas. Allow his most deep desires to submit to women as a gender, and more importantly his desire to submit to you, to overwhelm him.

Keep encouraging him to open up more. You will come to understand him more than you ever thought was possible. One final word of warning. If anything ever comes out that you don't think that you can handle (such as discovering that he was abused as a child or something similar), encourage him to see a professional psychologist.

Below are the questions that I use to dive into the submissive male's psyche. It is important that you ask them in the exact order that they are numbered. Do not add or subtract from them. If you are the wife, when a question asks him about his wife, do not change it. Ask it as is. You are not only the wife, but you represent women as a gender to him. If he says anything that you don't like, do not scold him about it. Be accepting. You can deal with things that you do not like at a latter time. Also, do not rush through the questions. Take your time and probe him as much as possible.

The Psychoanalysis of the submissive male:

1. Do you remember the first time that you ever had a sexual orgasm?

(As you ask this question, lightly stroke his penis) 1a) Please explain this experience in detail.

2. How old were you when you first realized that you wanted to be sexually dominated by a woman?

(Give his balls a firm squeeze)

2a) Explain where you were and what triggered these feelings?

2b) Why do you think that you had these feelings?

2c) Would you say that the desire to be sexually dominated by a woman has grown stronger or weaker as you have grown older?

3. What kind of relationship did you have with your Mother when you were a child?

(Stroke his face and hair)

3a) Was she the one who would discipline you when you misbehaved?

3b) Can you recall any intense experiences that you had with her when she was disciplining you? Like was she ever extra forceful or physical with you?

3c) How is your relationship with your Mother today?

3d) How do you feel about your Mother?

4. Do you have an older sister (or older sisters)?

(Continue with face and hair stroking)

4a) What kind of a relationship did you have with her (or with them) when you were growing up?