Here is one of my favorites. Draw her a bubble bath, light candles around the tub, undress her and bathe her. Pour her a glass of wine and allow her to drink it as she soaks. Then bathe her, dry her off, carry her to her bed and orally service her. She is your Queen and you are her servant. She is still in control and you are pleasuring her with a worshipful and submissive attitude. This is very romantic but is still an exercise in FemDom.

Take her out for a night of romance. Take her to dinner at a nice restaurant then take her dancing or to see a show. You could add some D&S to the evening as she can be wearing sexy lingerie under her dress and you can be wearing a pair of her panties or a cock ring or a chastity device under your pants. Lavish her with kisses and affection throughout the evening and I guarantee you if she is not too tired, she will want you to worship her body when you two get home.

Romance is the expression of a man’s love toward his Queen. Love is an act of submission in a man. A man should allow his submissive energy and desires to be channeled in the expression of his worshipful and subservient attitude toward her. A man should humble himself and write poetry or a song for her. He should humble himself and serve her in intimate and personal ways. A woman needs balance in her life so the submissive male must be willing to balance out the hardcore D&S with plenty of soft and romantic FemDom activities as well.

Many men make the mistake of expecting constant D&S from their life partners. What they risk is driving their wife out of FemDom with the demands for domination. A submissive needs to concentrate on serving his wife and seducing her dominance with his submission. The best way for a man to stir those dominant juices in a woman is by submitting to her in a humble fashion. The worst thing a man can do is to nag a woman to be dominant. This lifestyle is about the woman’s needs being met by the man. It is not about him pressuring her into being what he wants.

Most FemDom marriages are no different than any other marriage when it comes to the need for openness and the ability to communicate. In fact, the FemDom marriage is usually stronger because of the level of trust and honesty that has been established. The male who has introduced this lifestyle to his wife has made himself vulnerable and this will forge a deeper level of trust and intimacy between them both.