Just because the woman has taken charge of the marriage, that does not mean she is no longer allowed to communicate her feelings and emotions to her husband. It has been my experience that the submissive husband is more open to listen to his wife, as he now exists to serve her. Compare the submissive husband to the so-called macho or traditional husband and I think one will find the submissive husband is more eager to make himself available to meet his wife's needs. The submissive husband is motivated to serve and the D&S causes that more intimate bond. The dominant wife still needs that life partner to be there to express her disappointment or frustration. The woman who had a horrific day at work and wants to be cuddled and comforted by her husband should discover that the submissive male is truly interested and is honored to be there for her. Comfort and support is not dominance but submission. For centuries the submissive wife has been there to comfort and support her husband. Society has expected this out of the woman so now that the tables are turned, the submissive husband needs to be there for his wife to provide emotional support. The D&S sessions and FemDom activities should keep the husband centered and focused on serving his Queen, be that service domestically, sexually, socially or emotionally.

Some FemDom couples have small children at home. The reality is this.

It’s important that FemDom couples protect their children's innocence and not expose them to any kind of sexual or dominance activities between the wife and her husband. Most FemDom couples do an excellent job in allowing their children to grow up as normal children.

They protect them from seeing or experiencing anything that, due to their age and immaturity, they are not equipped to emotionally handle.

Therefore, most FemDom couples only play and practice their D&S lifestyle when the children are away or when they go away without the kids. In other words, they steal away to play.

I always recommend that FemDom couples with children purchase a trunk that can be locked, to put all of their D&S materials, tools, and clothing in. They should make sure it is locked securely and that they keep the key hidden from their children. Then when the kids go to visit relatives or friends, it can be playtime. It's not much different than all couples with children encounter when they want to have sex. A FemDom couple with young children do not want to play if the kids are just next door and there’s a chance they might walk in on the festivities. They should make sure that there is no way the kids are coming home for the night, before the Adults open up the trunk and play.