A man does not have to lose his masculinity to submit to a woman. He will have to humble himself and lose his male pride and his male ego. A Dominant woman will help him with this, as she will demand that his macho ways go by the way side. That is the good news. Once a man begins to submit to the woman in his life, she will help to develop his submission as his submission will feed off of her dominance and thus it will grow even stronger.

There are women out there that want their man to be feminine all of the time. They don't want to see any macho or manly ways coming from him, so they train him accordingly. There are also many women who like for their man to be manly in public. They may want their man to portray a manly image at times and a sissy and feminine image at times. Neither is right or wrong. It totally depends on what the woman wants and what the male submissive nature responds to favorably.

Few women want a man to be a doormat. Most women want a man that she can connect with on an intellectual level and every woman wants a man that she can share life with as her friend. The submissive man can fulfill this social need within a woman and still be in total submission to her. Women for centuries have fulfilled the social need within men and yet, were expected to be in submission to them at the same time.

Most women do not want a wimp outside the bedroom. What is a wimp?

Being a wimp means being weak but women want that weakness confined in the relationship. It doesn't mean that they want their man to be weak in his interactions with others or in his ability to handle life's challenges. Dominant Women enjoy causing a man to surrender his will and his strength over to her by using her feminine power. It is a power exchange. He is humbling himself and consenting to the fact that she is the dominant gender and that she is in charge. Her feminine power and sexual energy causes him to become weak in her presence. Thus, he becomes a wimp in her presence. It has nothing to do with how big he is or how successful he is or how confident he is around others. It all has to do with how he relates to his Queen.