When these boys grow up to be men with submissive desires, they often still maintain the fantasy of being an innocent and helpless boy that is being dominated and sexually used by an adult female authority figure.

They recall that their first submissive desires were toward their Teacher, Babysitter or Mother and they remember how pleasurable and exciting it was to have these fantasies and sexual dreams. As these males discover sexually oriented Adult magazines and videos, it is the stories and scenes where an older women dominates a young boy or younger man that causes them the most intense sexual arousal.

Roxanne receives numerous calls from submissive men looking to role-play an Adult Woman/young boy scenario. Roxanne’s phone clients tell her which Female Authority Figure they wish for her to role-play and she takes on the role of Teacher, Mother, Aunt or Babysitter while her callers take on the role of themselves when they were a young boy. Then she pretends to sexually dominate these men while they pretend to be boys.

“In my experience, it seems that a substantial percentage of my clients who want age play sessions are seeking to satisfy a need that has been unfulfilled since they were young. They are usually seeking one or any combination of the following -- nurturing, approval, sex, and/or discipline. Their favorite scenarios are Mother/son, Aunt/nephew, and Teacher/student, and their "fantasy" ages range from 6 to 18 years of age.

Interestingly, a small number of the men I speak with tell me that their fantasies are based on events they experienced in their youth. One gentleman was sent to stay with his Aunt one summer when he was 15, and his Aunt was very attractive. She had shapely legs and she would always wear shorts and sandals. He developed a juvenile crush on her and began fantasizing about her when he masturbated. While nothing every came of it in reality, he still fantasizes about her and feels the need to play it out with me over the phone.

A similar Aunt/nephew scenario turns more incestuous. My client reverts back to about 17 years of age and he visits his attractive Aunt while his Uncle is at work. The Aunt tells him to wait in the living room while she goes upstairs and changes her clothes. He disobeys her instructions, climbs the stairs, peeks into his Aunt’s bedroom, and sees her in her nylons and slip. He sneaks into the room and ultimately his Aunt seduces him.