Another client of mine prefers the teacher/student scenario in which I am his attractive teacher and he is about 12 years of age. We are alone in a classroom and I take down his pants and put him over my lap. His need is for extreme corporal punishment, and he is looking for permission to cry and exorcise the guilt he is feeling. This would seem an impossible scenario via the telephone, but his need is so strong that he actually punishes himself with a large wooden paddle during our phone session.

Age play is complex and fascinating, and men have myriad reasons that compel them to act out in this fashion. Whether it is nurturing, approval, sex or punishment they are seeking, many men will use age play to search their own souls until some semblance of satisfaction is attained.”

Roxanne asked me once if I could explain why so many men request this service for she was blown away at how common this desire was within the male gender. To be perfectly honest and blunt about it, most of these men wish that an older woman would have had sex with them when they were boys. They often fantasize that it was an experienced older woman who taught them how to sexually please a woman. Some of these men never felt comfortable being the aggressor that society dictates they be when it comes to the opposite sex. They prefer to be passive and helpless when having sex. The Adult Woman/young boy fantasy is a place where they can be innocent and passive while worshipping and discovering the mystery that is the female in all her beauty and authority.

Unfortunately, a lot of the erotic literature that deals with these fantasies has been censored by our society under the rightful concern and need to protect children from child pornography and child molestation. The fear of these very strict laws prevent most new adult erotic literature that deals with the Adult woman/young boy fantasy from being created. That is too bad because this particular fantasy is not about a little boy being molested but rather an adult man hearkening back to when women were in authority over him and his coming of age sexually. It is sad that society does not wish to understand this common male desire and draw the clear distinctions. Most of these men wish that they were the helpless victims of a loving and authoritative woman. Such erotica needs to be free from censorship as it might assist men in discovering more about their submissive desires.