I found myself researching feminism and female domination. I began to desire to really control and dominate my soon to be new husband. I tried to learn about my fetish but could not find anything on this type of desire. Eventually, I discovered material about female domination and D&S. I went to a fetish store and talked to the female owner. I told her about my fetish and my situation. She gave me some books about Leather sex and S&M and she told me about chastity devices. I really became excited.

I gave my soon to be young husband my terms for our marriage and he reluctantly agreed to those terms. He became excited about Leather sex and Female Domination and he agreed to remain a virgin as long as I wanted. We agreed not to engage in intercourse until our fifth wedding anniversary and if it went well, it would then become a regular part of our sex life. He agreed and we were wed as planned.

Shortly after we were married, I had him fitted for a chastity device. Our marriage has become a totally FemDom marriage and I incorporated spankings, discipline, strap-on play and other D&S sex into our marriage. My young husband orally pleases me as much as I demand and his orgasms are supervised and determined by me. I love being married to a young virgin and denying him. I knew what intercourse was all about from my first marriage and my past dating experiences but I was not tempted to have it with my new husband. When I want penetration, I make him pleasure me with my dildo.

Due to our D&S lifestyle and the power I have by keeping him a virgin, he has become even more submissive toward me with each passing year.

Once our fifth year anniversary approached, I asked him if he still wanted to lose his virginity or could we expand it for five additional years. He wanted to lose it but I still was not ready to surrender this power. My control over him is so complete that I convinced him to go five additional years. So the plan now is for me to allow him intercourse two years from now on our tenth wedding anniversary. I plan on staying true to my promise because a part of me does want him to experience what intercourse with a woman is like. He will be thirty-one when it finally happens. But I know it will change things some. I still get wet thinking about being married and denying a thirty-year old virgin. It drives my sexuality and makes me horny every time I think about it, which is often.”