The male orgasm is a biological function that causes a sexual release, which relaxes both the body and the mind. The body wants to relax or even sleep after orgasm and the last thing it wants to do is to be forced to do a physical activity. This is why men lose the desire to pleasure a woman after they have climaxed and that is why so many women are unfulfilled sexually. This is especially true if the male achieves more than one orgasm. The woman that performs oral sex on a man and follows that up with intercourse should not be surprised by her lack of sexual fulfillment. If a woman decides that she is indeed going to allow her man sexual release she would be wise to forbid it until after she has been sexually satisfied. It takes women more time to orgasm but the payoff is well worth the wait.

The female orgasm is like the waves of the ocean whereas the male orgasm is like the eruption of a volcano. The female orgasm is the gift that keeps on giving but the male orgasm is Wham, Bam, Thank you, Ma’am. Keeping a man aroused and denied is the greatest technique a woman can employ for her own sexual fulfillment. As a man becomes full of passion, his energy level goes beyond his normal physical endurance. This sexual energy under the control of a woman can be channeled into her being pleasured. Then once she has been satisfied, she may permit her man sexual release. Or she can keep him denied and he will be much more attentive to her needs both that night and in the days to follow.

Men are less inclined to be obedient after orgasm because physically they are relaxed and they become lazy. They are not as easily aroused and thus their sexual drive is not as high. This is particularly true as men age. The male reaches his sexual peak years in his late teens and early twenties. The female does not reach her sexual peak years until her late thirties and well into her forties. The younger male is easier to get excited again after orgasm due to his testosterone level. However, as a man ages, his testosterone level decreases and it will take him longer to become excited again. But the denied man is easily excited and aroused and thus he is easier to control by a female.

The fastest way to a man's will is his penis and it is through the will of a man that a woman will achieve obedience. To be obedient or rebellious requires a decision and that decision is made within the human mind.

The sexually satisfied man cannot be as easily controlled through his sex drive but the easily aroused man who is denied is eager to obey as his sex drive is at the forefront of his psyche.