Women who embrace Female Domination have discovered that if they will dominate their man in the bedroom, he is usually easy to control outside the bedroom. Most women no more enjoy nagging their husbands to get chores done around the house than husbands enjoy being nagged. But the man who has been dominated in the bedroom, usually develops a “yes, dear” mentality and is eager to serve. Thus there is no need to nag but simply to request (or order) with loving female authority.

Why are dominated men so eager to please? In a word, Passion!

The dominated male feels a special bond to his female dominator and feels romantic toward her. The dominated man becomes a passionate man and he usually wants to touch, fondle and caress his Queen. His submissive nature unleashes sexual energy and the wise wife will channel that energy into getting her needs (sexual and domestic) met.

However, there is a potential stumbling block to this gateway to passion and servitude and that is the male orgasm.

Women have come to discover that a denied and sexually frustrated male is a passionate and productive man but a sexually fulfilled male is a lazy man. So some women have embraced the practice of male orgasm denial to limit the amount of orgasms their man has. This keeps him in a heightened submissive state. Men love to be sexually dominated by a woman and men love to be taken to subspace. The mental stimulation and mental pleasure a man encounters from being dominated by a woman has been described as “heaven on earth”. When a woman “tames the beast”, the lasting fruit is a loving, passionate and eager to serve male.

Male orgasm denial may vary depending on what works best in the training and controlling of each individual male. Orgasm denial means different things to different couples. If a man would have his way, he would be allowed sexual release multiple times a day. That is not a good idea if a woman wants him to be attentive to her needs. So if a man wants to have an orgasm every night but his wife denies him what he wants and limits him to say one orgasm per week, then that is considered orgasm denial. There are women who deny their men longer and limit them to only one orgasm every ten days to two weeks. Then there are women who think one or two orgasms a month is sufficient for a man in order to keep his plumbing cleaned and his desire to serve at a maximum level.