An interesting aspect to the FemDom practice of male orgasm denial is the sexual impact it has on women. Few things rival the sexual intensity that a woman will experience when she denies her husband sexual orgasms while she enjoys as much pleasure as she desires. It is a psychological power exchange that releases more of a woman’s dominant nature and sexual desires. Women begin to not only enjoy the benefits of male orgasm denial outside of the bedroom but also the benefits inside of the bedroom. Male orgasm denial is all about control and the woman who controls her man’s orgasms ultimately controls her man.

A man being kept denied while pleasuring a woman is an incredible experience. The intensity of sex for a woman that is being orally serviced by a denied and passionate man will surpass most sexual experiences for the female. Likewise, few things rival the mental pleasure that the denied man experiences when he is being denied while required to sexually satisfy his Mistress. Those who have never experienced this power dynamic do not understand the power and intensity of male orgasm denial.

Priscilla discovered the advantages of orgasm denial when she began to control her husband’s sexual release.

“When I found out that my Ted had a problem with habitual masturbation, I felt hurt and betrayed. I figured that men did this but I had no conception of how frequently some men masturbate. I caught him one night masturbating while he was watching a sexually provocative music video on television and I just about lost it. We had been married for eight years and I had no indication about his masturbation problem.

He apologized and promised to never do it again and being the naïve wife that I was, I took him at his word.

It wasn’t long before I found more evidence of his dirty little habit, like the stained hand towels in the laundry, and I caught him doing it again, this time in the shower. He was embarrassed and he confessed to me that he could not control himself. That is also when he admitted to me that he had been masturbating multiple times a day since he was a teenager, including most days since we were married. I knew that men were different than women when it came to self-control but I felt betrayed and hurt by his confession. Our sex life was not the greatest and now I knew why. He preferred to pleasure himself.

To his credit, Ted felt ashamed and he wanted to please me by going cold turkey with his masturbation habit. I made it clear to him that I did not trust him and I saw no way he could ever convince me that he could control himself. Ted could see the disappointment in my eyes and that is when he suggested the implementation of a chastity device.