Much of what this woman told Joe is indeed true. Society is evolving toward a female dominated society and as women are gaining in positions of power in our society, they are becoming more aggressive in the bedroom. Granted, this young woman who seduced Joe is an exception rather than the rule. But while not all women will want to take a man to her bed and take him with a strap-on, there are an increasing number of women who prefer to be the aggressor when it comes to sex.

The concept of manhood is changing as far as women are concerned. A self assured and dominant female does not want a macho male but rather a male who knows how to respect women and who knows how to serve women. While most women still enjoy having traditional intercourse with men, many women are also choosing to introduce the strap-on into their relationship because of how it gives them a power advantage over their male partner. As Joe has discovered, the psychological effects on the male psyche is evident.

“Since that day, I am not that comfortable about flirting or picking up women. I now see women in a different light. I have a new sense of respect for them. I feel she took away my manhood that night.”

The experience of being dominated by a woman will touch a major chord within the nature of most males. It has already had an effect on Joe as he no longer desires to be the sexual aggressor. If men like Joe want to live a lonely and meaningless life, then they will keep on trying to "score" by seeking short-term sexual fulfillment and one-night stands. But if a man desires to have a relationship that is meaningful, then he must learn how to treat a woman. A man needs to become a gentleman and focus his energy and attention on serving women. That is what will bring men long-term happiness and satisfaction. The strap-on experience was good for Joe because he now has a new outlook on the female gender.

Not all men are hesitant to receive the strap-on. Vickie discovered that her husband wanted her to bring role-reversal into their bedroom.

“My husband has been trying to get me to be more dominant for several years. I always thought he would get over it eventually but I think it is for real. One thing my husband mentions frequently in bed is a desire to be "used like a girl". Do you have any advice about how to go about this?”

What Vickie’s husband wanted was for her to feminize him and then take him with a strap-on. That is what he meant by wanting her to use him like a girl. So just how does a woman penetrate her husband in a safe and healthy way? Once again my friend Victoria shares her expertise.