She undressed and climbed on top of me and we made out some more, with her controlling everything. I surrendered to her and became full of passion for her. Suddenly she stopped kissing and fondling me, and she excused herself to go to the bathroom. I figured that she was taking care of birth control or something.”

But that is not what this young woman had in mind.

“She came back in the bedroom wearing a strap on. I really could not tell you what I was thinking. I was confused and in shock but for some reason, I could not react to what was happening. It all happened very fast. She came to the bed, put my legs over her shoulders, lubricated my anus and she slowly began to penetrate me. I was in shock at what was happening but I just submitted to her advances. I felt pain, humiliation but most of all confusion. I was completely clueless as to how to act or what to say. She worked the dildo completely into me and she was in me for some time, thrusting her hips making it slide in and out of me. While doing this she looked straight in my eyes, which made it all even more uncomfortable. When she was done she withdrew it and she lay down in the bed next to me. I was nervous and when I saw that she had fallen asleep, I left her house.”

So what kind of an effect did this role-reversal have on Joe?

“I couldn't tell my friends what had happened since in their mind I had just scored once again. In the following days, I started looking on the Internet to see if anyone had experienced what I went through that night.

I found this woman in a chat room who was familiar with strap-on play and we chatted on-line. She explained to me that this is something that was happening more and more in our society. She said as women are becoming more powerful and becoming the head of many households, it is only logical that women will become the dominant sexual partner, hence she becomes the one that penetrates while the male is slowly becoming a natural receiver. I questioned her about nature and reproduction and she said that men will only need to penetrate, if at all, when it is time for reproduction. The woman's new role will lead her to become the dominant partner. She further said that as the male falls behind in education and power positions, it will become natural for him to accept being penetrated by the stronger sex. She said this is all beginning to happen in today's society.”