“I have had several relationships with women, have had flings, and have had one night stands. I would consider myself your typical twenty-something guy. One night, my friends and I went to a bar to flirt with some girls and see if we could get lucky. We flirted around and at some point during the night this girl approached me and we talked for a while.

The girl was very nice looking, just a little shorter than I (maybe around 5'8). She had a nice fit body and was quite intelligent. I could tell she had goals and was an achiever like me. In my mind, I had already scored and my friends seemed to notice it as well. My buddies left and I told them I would stay with her. We talked until the club closed and she was the one that asked me to go to her house. I was delighted that she was totally interested in me and that it wouldn't take much for us to end up together that night.”

Joe went to this young woman’s home, they talked and began to make out. Joe noticed that this young lady seemed very sure of herself and very enticing. She was also somewhat aggressive, which seemed a little strange to Joe.

“I didn't mind since I was thinking I would score with her. After making out some with her, she asked me if I wanted to go to her bedroom. Of course I answered in the affirmative. Once in the bedroom, she got more aggressive. She was the one kissing, hugging, touching etc. I tried to regain the offensive and for a while both of us tried to take the lead. We spent a few minutes in a stalemate where we both were on the offensive.

To me this was very new. I did not know how to react to it. A few minutes after, I found that she had somewhat taken over the lead and soon I stopped fighting. I can't really explain why but I stopped. I was tired of trying to take control and she seemed like she was not about to let go of it. Plus, she just seemed to be more intense at what we were doing which also was very strange to me. I remember thinking to myself how weird this night had become as she was kissing me all over and was holding me against the wall. I was pretty much doing what she wanted and was extremely confused and did not know how to react to the situation.

She undressed me and brought me to the bed and forced me on my back.