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Chapters (107)
  1. Cover
  2. Dedication
  3. Foreword
  4. Introduction
  5. POEMS
  6. Shaukat ke Naam
  7. To Shaukat*
  8. Pashemani
  9. Regret
  10. Sarojini Naidu
  11. Sarojini Naidu
  12. Behroopni
  13. She of the Many Faces
  14. Andeshe
  15. Anxious Thoughts
  16. Aurat
  17. Woman
  18. Bewa ki Khudkushi
  19. A Widow’s Suicide
  20. Doshiza Malan
  21. The Virginal Flower Girl
  22. Ek Dua
  23. A Prayer
  24. Ek Bosa
  25. A Kiss
  26. Ek Lamha!
  27. A Moment!
  28. Ehtiyat
  29. Caution
  30. Naya Husn
  31. New Beauty
  32. Nazrana
  33. Tribute
  34. Pyar ka Jashn
  35. A Celebration of Love
  36. Tasawur
  37. Imagination
  38. Tum
  39. You
  40. Ajnabi
  41. Stranger
  42. Pehla Salaam
  43. The First Greeting
  44. Aaina
  45. Mirror
  46. Akhfa-i Muhabbat
  47. Concealing Love
  48. Roosi Aurat ka Naara
  49. The Call of the Russian Woman
  50. Hausla
  51. Courage
  52. Garbhwati
  53. The Pregnant Woman
  54. Peetal ke Kangan
  55. Brass Bangles
  56. FILM LYRICS
  57. Waqt Ne Kiya Kya Haseen Sitam*
  58. What a Beautiful Cruelty Time Has Inflicted
  59. Zara Sii Aahat Hotii Hai*
  60. At the Faintest Footfall . . .
  61. Yeh Nayan Darey Darey*
  62. These Fear-filled Eyes
  63. Merey Chanda, Mere Nanhe*
  64. My Darling, My Little One
  65. Kuchh Dil Ne Kaha*
  66. The Heart Says Something
  67. Dheerey-dheerey Machal Ai Dil-e Be-qaraar*
  68. Quieten, Quieten, O Restless Heart
  69. Abhi Kya Sunogey Suna To Hasogey*
  70. What Will You Hear Now, You Will Laugh If You Do
  71. Maa Hai Mohabbat ka Naam*
  72. A Mother Is a Name for Love
  73. Aaj Socha To Aansu Bhar Aaye*
  74. Tears Well Up When I Think of It
  75. Betaab Dil Ki Tamanna Yehi Hai*
  76. The Sole Desire of My Restless Heart
  77. Hai Tere Saath Meri Wafa*
  78. My Fidelity Will Stay with You
  79. Har Taraf Ab Yahii Afsaney Hain*
  80. All Around Me I Hear It Said
  81. Koi Yeh Kaise Bataye Ke Woh Tanha Kyun Hai*
  82. How Does One Explain . . .
  83. Jhuki Jhuki Si Nazar . . .*
  84. This Lowered Gaze
  85. Tum Itna Jo Muskura Rahey Ho . . .*
  86. You Are Smiling So Much
  87. Afterword
  88. Footnotes
  89. To Shaukat
  90. The Virginal Flower Girl
  91. Waqt Ne Kiya Kya Haseen Sitam
  92. Zara Sii Aahat Hotii Hai
  93. Yeh Nayan Darey Darey
  94. Merey Chanda, Mere Nanhe
  95. Kuchh Dil Ne Kaha
  96. Dheerey-dheerey Machal Ai Dil-e Be-qaraar
  97. Abhi Kya Sunogey Suna To Hasogey
  98. Maa Hai Mohabbat ka Naam
  99. Aaj Socha To Aansu Bhar Aaye
  100. Betaab Dil Ki Tamanna Yehi Hai
  101. Hai Tere Saath Meri Wafa
  102. Har Taraf Ab Yahii Afsaney Hain
  103. Koi Yeh Kaise Bataye Ke Woh Tanha Kyun Hai
  104. Jhuki Jhuki Si Nazar . . .
  105. Tum Itna Jo Muskura Rahey Ho . . .
  106. Select Bibliography
  107. THE BEGINNING

But more importantly there has been a sea change in the attitude of the villagers. The shackles of a deeply patriarchal society are being broken . . .

Tod yeh azm-shikan daghdagha-e-pand bhi tod

. . . and women are negotiating greater space for themselves. With financial independence coming their way, the status quo within families has changed. Women have their own bank accounts and are equal participants in the decision-making process both within the family and within the community. The scourge of child marriage which was rampant in Mijwan and its surrounding villages is now a thing of the past. This was the mindset change Kaifi had worked towards.

A bright student from Kaifi Azmi Girls Inter College, Mijwan, Shweta Prajapati, thought nothing of washing dishes at a relative’s house because hers was the last mud hut in the village and she wanted to gift her parents a pukka house. She is now studying at the Mahatma Gandhi International University in Wardha. She says confidently, ‘There is nothing that a girl cannot do. All she needs is opportunity. Thank you, Mijwan, for giving me that opportunity.’

Lalima used to trudge 8 kilometres every day from her village to the school in Mijwan, so determined was she to educate herself. Today she cycles to the embroidery centre and earns enough to look after her ailing parents and educate her younger sister. Her eyes shining, she says, ‘Mijwan has taught me to dream big. I am determined to achieve success and bring glory to my country.’

In two months from now, Baba will be making his first feature film Mee Raqsam, with Aditi from Mijwan playing the fourteen-year-old protagonist. She is the younger daughter of Gopal who was Abba’s loyal attendant till the very end. How empowering for Aditi and how aspirational for the young women of Mijwan who have opened beauty parlours, walked the ramp along with Shah Rukh Khan and Ranbir Kapoor and can now look forward to acting as a career.

All along, Baba had resisted the lure of Mijwan. He was unhappy that Abba had given up the comforts of Mumbai to settle in a tiny village that didn’t have any health facilities. As was his wont Abba never argued with Baba because deep down he was confident that the prodigal son would return. As he did inevitably and inexorably. By using Mijwan as the background for his first film, Baba pays the biggest tribute he could have to his father.

All this would have pleased Kaifi no doubt but he was not one for resting on laurels . . . I can see him up and about, heading towards the next goal . . .