When the cane was finally picked up, she would take a few practice swishes or even tap the cane lightly on his seat. It was more than likely that while the cane was swishing through the air from the Governess’ practice swings, she would give the young male a lecture on the value of corporal punishment and explain to him why he was being punished.

When the Governess stood behind the young male with cane in hand, his sense of helplessness and apprehension became strong. It was useful for the Governess to tease him by standing behind him in a position where her feet and other parts of her body would encroach on his peripheral vision. The awareness that she was standing behind him, watching him, and contemplating her delivery made the anticipation worse than the actual caning. The punished male was left with a sore posterior and a determination to do better. That was the desired result of the Governess’ mind-game. Trudy uses similar psychology when she disciplines her husband, playing those same mind games. Her goal is for the impact of the punishment not to be limited to Norman’s bottom, for she also desires to impact his mind and his soul.

Trudy loves this form of Female Domination and it is hard for one to argue with her methods when one meets her loving and well-mannered husband. When one looks closely at her marriage, it is easy to understand why Trudy enjoys Victorian discipline and the AKS. But what does Norman get out of this type of marriage? After all, he works full-time and he is required to do most of the domestic chores around their very large house. Does he ever desire a different kind of marriage?

“I wouldn’t trade my marriage or this lifestyle for anything”, proclaims Norman. “I have harbored submissive desires toward women since I was a teenage boy. Trudy didn’t ask for this type of marriage, I introduced it to her. The AKS was a form of Female Domination that appealed to her.

She had no interest in BDSM. She believes in Female Supremacy but she liked the way the women dominated boys and young men during the Victorian era. She grew up watching her Mother being firm with her brothers. Trudy loves the clothing, the corsets, and the whole mind-set of the AKS. I needed discipline in my life and I love to serve my wife by doing housework for her.