“If a woman decides to incorporate physical discipline or corporal punishment into her relationship with a man, it is important that she start out slow and that she be willing to experiment. I would advise that she start out with an old fashioned over the knee spanking with her hands or a hairbrush. I recommend that women prepare for the discipline session by dressing sexy to stir a man’s sexuality and submissive nature. Then she should order him naked across her lap. It is important to start out with soft blows, rotate between cheeks, always wait a few seconds between blows, and then build up to harder and faster blows. Nurturing is part of the discipline process so I would advise for the dominant female to caress her partner’s ass cheeks during and after the spanking. A spanking should be erotic as well as punitive.

I would also recommend that after a woman becomes comfortable in administering a mild spanking that she purchase a paddle or a whip and then experiment with them. She should always start out light and build up to harder and more severe. It is vital that physical discipline stay primarily confined to a man’s buttocks and if the woman wants to discipline other regions of the male anatomy, she should try his thighs, the backside of his upper legs and the upper region of his back. The lower back (where the kidneys are located) must be avoided, as should most regions in the front side of the male anatomy.

Also, it is important to give the man a safe word that he can use if he becomes too uncomfortable or experiences serious pain. It will take time to build a man up to where he can receive a rather hard whipping or paddling but his endurance will increase the more he is disciplined.

Most important, I advise women to hug and love on their submissive man after the discipline session, as she should always be willing to balance discipline with nurturing. Women will be impressed at the level of intimacy and love that will form between a couple that incorporates regular discipline within their relationship. If you don’t believe me, give it try.”

A woman should always keep in mind that the effect on the man’s body is not as important as the effect on his mind, so the severity of the discipline is not as important as the purpose of the discipline.

Disciplining a man purges his conscience of guilt, his mind of negative thoughts and his soul of negative emotions. Sometimes people are too busy being grown up and acting like mature adults that they tend to close their minds to the fundamentals of the human nature. Men need structure and discipline in their lives in order to become productive in life. Men crave to be disciplined and when necessary, punished by the woman they love.