In my opinion, all men are capable of achieving subspace if they will let go and if they will surrender to a dominant woman. It need only be a short and temporary surrender if it is a man having a scene with a Dominatrix or a Professional Mistress. A man can surrender, enter subspace, and worship a woman whom he does not have a relationship with. The subspace will last for the session and perhaps hours after the session, but then he returns to his normal life. However, if a man is married (or in a permanent relationship with a dominant woman) he can experience an even greater level of submission. His time in subspace will vary and although he will still live most of the time out of subspace, the dynamics of an ongoing relationship will enable the man to live a life of worshipful and meaningful service of his dominant woman. His time in subspace will be multiplied and weekly sessions will ensure the power exchange and the power dynamics of the female domination relationship.

What men are discovering is that freedom does not come from trying to maintain control. Freedom will come only when they surrender. That which restricts and confides a submissive man is his analytical and logical thinking. But the man that surrenders to a woman will experience true inner freedom. A train is restricted by its tracks but that which restricts it also allows it to freely move across the country. Take the train off the tracks, it is no longer restricted by the tracks but it also cannot move at all. That which restricts it is that which frees it. A woman’s dominance and control will restrict her man and confide her man but if the man will yield to her power, he will find that he enjoys more inner freedom under her control than he ever did under his own control.

Female Domination can bring an incredible amount of harmony to a marriage. One couple shared with me how female domination can be used to end arguments and defuse fights. To quote from the husband Brett:

“When we are in the middle of a heated disagreement, my wife will sometimes pull out some fabric strips (that are normally used for romantic purposes) and tie me to a chair; we have an understanding that I will not resist this act no matter how angry I might be. After then gagging me with a scarf or bandana, she will leave me for an hour or two to think about it.

The strong emotions that I experience during this time are always the same: I go from fury (at being helpless and unable to continue the argument) to frustrated resignation to regret about having upset her to burning passion for her.