Once a woman’s dominant nature has been seduced and she begins to feel those dominant urges, a man still must be patient and allow her the room to grow. Depending on a woman’s upbringing, she may have a number of issues to work out within herself before she can openly embrace her dominant nature. Societal programming and religious upbringing can be major stumbling blocks for a woman as she begins to express a side of her nature that goes against what she was taught to be the norm for a member of her gender. Nevertheless, once the dormant dominant nature begins to come alive, most women will be able to overcome their inhibitions and blossom into that beautiful and confident dominant woman.

Kathy is an experienced dominant woman. She and her husband James have been active in Female Domination for over seven years. Kathy does phone counseling with submissive men under the name Ms Kathleen and she heads up a Female Domination support group in the Maryland/Virginia suburbs of Washington DC. Kathy absolutely loves Female Domination and is a firm believer in Female Supremacy. One gets the impression that Kathy was the one who brought James into this lifestyle for they seem so natural in their current roles. But that was not the case. James had to seduce Kathy’s dominant nature and allow her the space to overcome her doubts and questions.

Once James had confessed to his wife his lifelong desire for Female Domination, Kathy agreed to play some D&S games with him in the bedroom. She struggled with this kind of sexuality and although she had fun, she had problems reconciling this lifestyle with her conscience.

Kathy loved being dominant in the bedroom but she would go back and forth. She even threw out the riding crop and PVC outfit James had given her as a gift. But something about this lifestyle appealed to her at the same time. Kathy describes her metamorphosis into a dominant woman.

“My love for my husband has never waned. I was a blissful bride on my wedding day. I can’t imagine a bride being more ready to get married to a man. The wedding day was great, the honeymoon was fun but I did not particularly care for the early years of our marriage. It was great being married to a man that I considered my best friend. What I loved the most about being married was that there was always someone there to talk with and to do things with. We had a lot of fun together.