Doris began to administer light spankings to Henry during sex with her paddle. This felt more natural than she had imagined. Henry responded very favorably to this discipline. Doris got the idea from the WHAP magazines to assign Henry regular chores and to have a weekly discipline session with him where she evaluated his performance in his service of her. Before long, the weekly discipline session became a regular part of their relationship.

Doris and Henry kept the lines of communication open and freely discussed what they each enjoyed about their D&S play and what they disliked. Henry could not believe what had happened. By the year 2000, he was in a full-blown Female Domination marriage with his wife Doris, complete with regular discipline sessions. Henry began to do most of the household chores as Doris expected that out of him. Doris agreed to dominate Henry in the bedroom, complete with fetish outfits and D&S activities, as long as Henry would obey her outside of the bedroom.

Doris enrolled Henry into a cooking class at a local community college and Henry began to do all the cooking as well as the majority of the household chores. Doris loved this new arrangement and it was like a dream come true. Henry served her needs, did the chores and treated her like a Queen. In return, Doris disciplined Henry to motivate him and to train him to become an even better servant to her. Henry’s submissive nature was fulfilled and Doris blossomed into a confident and take-charge wife. The Genie was out of her bottle and by Doris’ own admission, she would never go back to a non- FemDom marriage. Theirs was now a win/win relationship and neither of them had ever been happier.

Henry’s approach to introducing his wife to the Female Domination lifestyle is the most effective method. While not all wives so easily embrace the D&S aspects like Doris did, most women will at least come to enjoy being served by their husbands in such a selfless manner. The key is that a man must first serve his wife and show her the benefits of the FemDom lifestyle before he can open up to her about his fetish and D&S desires. Even if his wife will never totally embrace Female Domination, I believe that the submissive male will still enjoy more submissive fulfillment from placing his wife’s needs ahead of his own than he will by merely fantasizing about Female Domination. After all, true male submission is about denying self and focusing on the needs of the woman.