While most dominant women like to incorporate male orgasm denial on some level (be it allowing male orgasms only once a week, twice a month or once a month), a few women go even a step further with their men. There are relationships where the dominant woman has incorporated permanent denial and permanent male chastity. Eva enjoys such an advanced FemDom relationship with her husband.

“I am a practicing female supremacist and am enjoying this life more than I could have imagined. I am having the most incredible orgasms of my life. I have been married to my husband for five years now and he has not had an orgasm for the entirety of our marriage. I am heavily into orgasm denial and his frustration keeps my libido high.

Our honeymoon night was his last orgasm because he knew what we had planned as a couple and our “pre-arrangement” to be a D/s couple. His last orgasm was onto a copy of the contract that we had prepared out in detail. I let it dry and he framed it so he could see what he was never going to get again as long as we were married. We have a loving relationship and even though his frustration grows rapidly, I handle him with true superiority.

Is such a relationship possible? Can a man really be denied permanently?

Some women claim that they have such a relationship with a submissive male and there are permanent chastity devices on the market that come with break-off screws and can be installed in accordance with a Prince Albert piercing or a Frenum piercing in the male’s penis. From my research, it is important for health reasons that a man is allowed to have his plumbing cleaned out periodically. So how does a woman achieve permanent denial in the training of her husband and at the same time ensure his proper health and mental well-being? The key seems to be with a practice known as “prostate milkings”.

Some dominant women milk their husbands’ prostates to clean out his plumbing without allowing him the pleasure of an orgasm. A prostate milking is where the female inserts her latex covered finger in his anus, finds his prostate gland and massages it. Done correctly, this will cause the male to release built up semen out of his penis, only it is not intense like an orgasm but rather the semen kind of flows out in a long, continuous stream. An erection is not necessary for a prostate milking so a chastity device can be worn during this process. The end result of the milking is to relieve the male of stored up semen without giving him a pleasurable orgasm.

Another unusual and rare FemDom practice that I have encountered a few times is the enforced virginity of the male within a FemDom relationship. This usually involves an older woman and a younger man.

Lydia is in such a relationship and her story is quite interesting.