A few months ago my husband complained that we did not engage in enough penetrative sex. I ordered a strap-on dildo and now use it on my husband regularly. I also ordered a chinstrap dildo, when he wears it he can penetrate me and lick my anus at the same time.

The natural growth in our marriage has been toward a female dominated union. My husband is not only my lover and friend, but also a complete servant. He obeys me at all times, though in public we act very much like the couple next door.”

Men are much easier to control and dominate when they are denied orgasms. Plus, it makes the entire FemDom lifestyle more pleasurable for the man if he is denied and sexually frustrated. Once a man climaxes, he experiences a letdown and his enthusiasm to serve the female is greatly diminished. To many submissive men, they love the power exchange of being denied while being forced to pleasure the superior female as often as she demands. The thought of having such total control over a husband that even his orgasms can be under her authority, excites many wives.

It would be difficult to deny a man that wasn't excited about some aspects of Female Supremacy or Female Domination. The woman feeds off of the submissive male's excitement and submission. The submissive husband desires to surrender to his wife and the dominant wife seizes upon his desire and thus she begins to desire more submission from him.

Some women love the thrill of knowing that their husband would rather give them pleasure than receive pleasure himself. It makes the female feel very powerful and sexual. The man has been trained so that his fulfillment is in knowing that his Queen is being fulfilled. To the submissive male, he is troubled if the moans of his wife’s ecstasy do not convey intense pleasure and sexual satisfaction. The submissive male gets much personal fulfillment in pleasing his Queen, which is how it should be within a FemDom marriage.

Kari discovered the power of orgasm denial and enforced male chastity in her relationship with her husband Kenneth.

“My husband and I are both college educated, professional, have an active social life, go to church and share many interests together. A couple of years ago, my husband (a more adventurous person than I) revealed to me his desire to become a submissive husband. I didn't understand what he meant. I love my husband very much, however at first I was convinced he needed psychological help. I did listen though and I did investigate. I realize now he didn't need psychological help at all and I am glad he shared his desires with me.