He satisfies me orally...front and back. I use a cane and strap, administer golden showers over his body and face, tie him into positions,....oh a lot of things. We have different styles of panties for different roles...punishment panties, sissy panties, slut panties, schoolgirl panties etc. Often his genitals are tucked down so you don't see anything male at all between his thighs. I don't seem to be able to help myself and he is always excited by whatever new thing I demand.”

Like so many things about this lifestyle, it is hard to pinpoint for sure why women love to feminize a man. But this we do know; there is something inside the psyche of a woman that causes her to become excited by the thought and activity of making the masculine submit to the feminine through forced feminization.

Of course, not all men object to being feminized. Some men desire to be forced to dress in female attire. I have had many males confess that they wish that their wives would dress them up in feminine clothing during sex and be the aggressor with them. Other men would like to be dressed in female attire and then humiliated by the female. Still others just like the feeling of being adorned in soft, feminine clothing as it puts them in contact with the world of the female.

Mary Jane met such a man when she was taking a computer course at a college in Minnesota.

“The instructor was a small, slim man in his late 20s who wore his hair in a ponytail. He was a good teacher, kind and patient. He was also what I would call "almost pretty." I thought he had a feminine appearance, but I know some younger women in the class thought that he was really cute in a way they found attractive.

We had some casual conversations in which he learned I owned my own salon and I half-jokingly told him I could improve his look if he let me cut his hair. I didn't give these conversations much thought because they were like conversations he had with every student.

Eleven months after the class ended, our paths crossed again at a Barnes and Noble bookstore. His very first words to me, after calling my name, were "Are you still interested in cutting my hair?" We ended up visiting for about 30 minutes during which he asked if he might come to my town to take me out to dinner. My impression of him, from my time in his class, was of a kind, considerate person, sincerely interested in others.