Forced feminization allows a woman to be more aggressive. Forced Feminization causes a man to become weak and submissive. His ability to resist and object go by the way side and he is very vulnerable. Women love this because now they can do whatever they want with their helpless victim. Now the woman can be the aggressor and she can have her way with the man. The man is not threatening to her and she no longer fears his strength or masculinity. Women (such as Hillary) have told me that they have a very strong desire to take a man forcefully with a strap-on dildo when he is feminized. The desire to be the giver of penetrating sex becomes very real to the aggressive female and the actual act becomes quite satisfying to her. Again, it sends such a message to the man and society. It says that the woman is the aggressor and the giver and the man is the weaker sex and the receiver.

Forced Feminization may become attractive to a woman who has previously been abused by a man. Some women fear men due to being mistreated or abused and feminizing a man may cause him to be less intimidating to her. Now she can have her way with him because he is just a little sissy boy. A number of women have rejected the macho and masculine male and prefer a submissive and boyish male instead.

Women who have had negative experiences with macho types may feel more at ease with a softer male. Carolyn describes how she enjoys feminizing her husband.

“I am a 34 year-old woman married to a submissive man. We're a middle class couple with straight friends. Basically, our sex life is pretty well based on my husband passive in panties. It all evolved slowly and pretty innocently...fun that got serious. He is not a fulltime sissy. I wouldn't want that. But in the bedroom he is less than a man and I like that because I met him after an abusive relationship with an impossibly "masculine" man.

My husband is not effeminate...but slender, almost hairless, a potentially feminine body. He likes to be spanked and soon that became a ritual. He began to wear unisex white briefs for these punishments and I noticed he always pulled them tight up the crack of his bottom. Then I began to do that for him before the spanking began. Anyway, it all slowly evolved into the wearing of panties for spanking. Now most of our sex life is built around his pantied bottom. He is only allowed to have an orgasm at my command while playing with his pantied "peepee".