Our weekly discipline sessions bring harmony to our relationship as I deal with all strife and anxiety while I discipline him, thus we work through our differences in a fun manner. The result is that we are free to go about our business the rest of the week in perfect agreement and harmony. I always take Vincent’s needs into consideration but I rule the roost and I make the decisions. We would have never realized our dreams if I hadn’t taken Vincent to where we needed to go as a couple.

He is a very cautious person, which is good as that brings balance to our marriage, but I am a go-getter and I am able to motivate Vincent through our discipline sessions.”

So exactly how does Beverly discipline her husband and how does this build intimacy?

“What I do during a discipline session with Vincent is as follows. I will first dress up in an outfit that I know will excite Vincent, as well as prepare him for his spankings. I have come to realize that the best way to get a man to become submissive is through a man's sexuality. I know that Vince has a real leg fetish, so I wear sexy nylons, stockings or pantyhose along with a short skirt, high heel shoes and usually just a bra. Such a look drives Vincent into submission and mentally prepares him for his discipline. I change up the outfit by changing the material and look of my skirt as well as utilizing the array of stockings and pantyhose I have at my disposal. But regardless, my overall appearance highlights my shapely and sexy legs that Vince finds so attractive.

Next, I will order Vince to undress and kneel before me. At that time, I will being to critique his weekly performance of his chores around the Inn, as well as how he treats the people he comes in contact with, especially those of the female gender. I will scold Vince if he disobeyed me during the week or displays a negative attitude. Once I have told Vince of what he has done to displease me, I will sit down on the edge of our bed, order him across my lap and then I discipline him accordingly.

I may spank him with my bare hands or I may use a tool of discipline like a hairbrush or a paddle. I start out with slow and sensual blows to his bare bottom, carefully rubbing his butt cheeks with tender loving caresses. I talk to Vincent in soft whispers, challenging him to be a better husband and informing him of my demands of him for the week ahead.

Vincent yields to my dominance and surrenders his will over to me. This brings peace to Vincent and love and harmony to our marriage. ”