Our relationship began to change due to Ted’s chastity. Ted was always the dominant partner in our marriage but with me controlling his orgasms through the use of a chastity device, I began to develop a dominant attitude toward him. The first thing that changed was our sex life. I released Ted from the CB-2000 once a week in which he would clean both himself and the device and shave his pubic hair. I would allow him a few hours out of the device before requiring that he re-install it. During his few free hours, I would allow him to have sex with me. He would spring to erection and his passion toward me was the best since we were newlyweds. But there was one minor problem. Ted was so sexually frustrated from being confined in that cage all week without being able to touch himself, that when I permitted him to have sex with me, he would have a pre-mature ejaculation, which left me frustrated. An even bigger problem was that after his quickie orgasm, he seemed to revert back to his old self, meaning a loss in passion and a short temper toward me. This was not good so I had to make some adjustments to our sex life.

I began to only have sex with Ted while he was wearing the CB-2000. In fact, I only permitted him out of the device about once every other week and then only for a few hours to allow him to shave, to clean himself and clean the device. If we were going to engage in sex, he had to be wearing the CB-2000. The results were that for the first time in our marriage, our sex life became all about my pleasure. Ted orally pleasured me for as long as I wanted and I pleasured myself with a dildo or a vibrator. Ted was so full of passion that he began to perform oral sex on me for hours at a time. Before, he never liked to go down on me but now, he was doing me with passion and an incredible endurance. I would also make him pleasure me with my sex-toys. I took great pleasure in pointing out to Ted how my dildo was much bigger than his penis and how my dildo never went limp.