Forced feminization can be exciting to the male, even if he does not start out enjoying wearing female attire. Forced Feminization can be mentally satisfying to a man because he wants to be stripped of his masculinity and he wants the Feminine to overpower the masculine. There are many psychological and sociological reasons why more and more men are having these desires. As women gain in power and authority, men's submissive natures are becoming stronger. As women continue to invade areas that once were the worlds dominated by men (business, politics, sports) this causes the submissive nature within man to stir. Some men when confronted with a powerful woman become weak and thus the male no longer views himself as the woman’s equal. He now wants her feminine power to overpower his masculinity and strip him completely of it. He wants the female to conqueror him. He wants to yield all control over to her. Being forced to wear female attire and do domestic chores around the house can bring submissive fulfillment to a man as he now gets to serve the gender he considers to be superior to him.

Some men enjoy serving women even if there is no sexual contact or chance for intimacy. Harold is the domesticated servant of Kay. Harold works for a large computer company where he makes six figures a year.

He is forty-eight years old, single and successful by many societal standards. Kay is thirty-seven and happily married to her husband but has chosen to keep FemDom with her husband confined to the bedroom.

Kay prefers for her husband to be her social and domestic equal.

Kay met Harold through a local D&S group she and her husband frequent on occasion to stay educated about D&S practices. She formed a relationship with Harold based on her need to dominate a man outside the bedroom and his need to be the domesticated servant of a woman.

Although he does not live with Kay out of respect for her husband, Harold is Kay’s full-time domesticated submissive.

Harold cleans Kay’s house each weekend, from top to bottom, does her laundry and any other domestic chore Kay might assign. Occasionally, Kay will feminize Harold while he does his chores but that is only for variety and not the norm. For Harold, feminization is not necessary. He gets his thrill and fulfillment in serving a woman as her butler, maid and domesticated servant. Harold receives no monetary reward for his duties nor does he want to be paid, for that would take away from Harold’s submissive fulfillment. He delights in being ordered to slave away for a woman.

Kay will discipline Harold if his performance is not satisfactory but other than their occasional corporal punishment sessions, the only other D&S activity they engage in is Kay controlling Harold’s sexual release.