Consider the following three sex experiments:

1. Take your wife, stripped, standing, in your arms. Make sure that, before you do so, she is not aroused; for example, her lovely cunt is dry. And, as you kiss her, touch her. See how long it takes for her cunt to become sweet and wet. Then, at another time, repeat the experiment. This time, before you kiss her, tie her hands behind her back. (Silken cords or leather boot laces are excellent. A man’s necktie is also good.) This time you will discover that she is hot and wet to you almost immediately. This time she knows she is completely in your power, that she is “captive,” that you control her, that she is yours. This inspires a bit of fear in her. A woman is always frightened, somewhat, to be bound, even by a trusted lover. Can she really trust him? What will he really do with her now? This bit of fear, mixed with her helplessness (she tries vainly to free her hands), and her sense of the lover’s desirability, and that he will have his way with her, produces, normally, exquisite submission behavior. She yields.

2. Make ordinary love one night, and see how long it takes for your wife to attain orgasm. On the next night, vary this only by one simple alteration. Before you begin to make love, she kneels before you and kisses your feet. Her orgasm will be attained in less time.

3. Make ordinary love one night, and see how long it takes your wife to attain orgasm. The next night, vary this only by one alteration. The wife, to herself, thinking, saying nothing, fantasizes that she is a helpless slave girl who will be forced to orgasm by an imperious master. For example, perhaps she is a new girl; perhaps she has feared all day that she would be called to his bed; perhaps he saw her in the women’s quarters, naked, and she knew, seeing his eyes, that he would have her sent to him that night; now she moans to herself that she is only a woman, only a female, only his slave; she tries to fight her comprehension that he is the strongest, most attractive man she has ever seen; she tries to restrain herself; then, as she is driven into heat by his touch and kisses, she finds herself, bit by unwilling bit, being forced from climax to climax until at last, a conquered slave girl, she yields to her master, surrendering in ecstatic orgasm to his uncompromising domination. The husband then, since she will not be interested in doing so, can see at what point the orgasm was precipitated, before attending to the bringing her down with tenderness from its heights. It will have been attained in a much shorter time than the one on the preceding night.