‘I break into people’s houses, Tom.’

‘And steal paperclips!’

He thinks he knows me. Poor Tom. He doesn’t realise honesty can be as big a smokescreen as deceit.

I take my book from him again.

He has no idea what I had to do to survive.

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kyle and harper share their truth

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Hi, my lovely Kyper Nation, I’m so grateful to you for showing up today, because it’s been a really, really traumatic week and this is going to be a super emotional episode. I’m, like, baring my soul to you today, and this is so, so incredibly painful, but I feel like I need to share my truth with you, because I need to be my authentic self with you even when it hurts.

You know me and Kyle think of you all as our family. Some of you have been following our story since the beginning and it’s been a roller-coaster ride, hasn’t it? Honestly, we couldn’t have made it without you.

We’ve been super lucky with this vlog and all our lovely sponsors like SugarPop and Poshnet – and don’t forget to check out the links to their websites below before you go, peeps, because they’re totally awesome and they’ve got some amazing deals right now.

But me and Kyle have had our rough patches, too, like everyone, and sometimes you have to nearly lose something to realise how precious it is, like in that song, you don’t know what you’ve got till it’s gone, it’s just so true.

Sometimes it feels like a relationship is over but really it’s a moment for growth and understanding and to lean into your partner, you know?

The thing is, what you all need to know is, this week Kyle came to me and confessed, oh, this is, like, really hard for me to say—

[Sobbing]

So, Kyle told me, he admitted he’d been intimate with someone else.

I was in absolute bits, I’m not going to lie. I just never thought this could happen to us. I couldn’t understand how my Kyle could do this to me.

So I said to Kyle, you have to leave now, I can’t trust you, and he was devastated too, because he didn’t want to lose me, and he said he didn’t want to cheat, but he couldn’t help it because it turns out he’s basically suffering from an addiction. He said sex is his addictive behaviour, that’s where he goes to hide his feelings, to run away from reality, it’s like it’s his drug.

And once I started to understand it wasn’t his fault, I realised I had to help him, because that’s what Meghan would do, isn’t it?