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Contents (123)
  1. Praise for The Cancer Ladies’ Running Club
  2. Also By Josie Lloyd
  3. Copyright
  4. Note to Readers
  5. Contents
  6. 1
  7. Bah Humbug
  8. 2
  9. The Gravy Arc
  10. 3
  11. Everybody’s Having Fun
  12. 4
  13. New Friendship Turf
  14. 5
  15. Pilcharding
  16. 6
  17. Resolutions
  18. 7
  19. Scatter Cushions
  20. 8
  21. The Family Zoom
  22. 9
  23. The Extension
  24. 10
  25. Luna
  26. 11
  27. Washing Away the Bad Juju
  28. 12
  29. Dog Ambush
  30. 13
  31. The Promise of Fireworks
  32. 14
  33. Inner Superhero
  34. 15
  35. Tent Call
  36. 16
  37. Oystercatchers
  38. 17
  39. Rob’s Declaration
  40. 18
  41. Hard to Forgive
  42. 19
  43. A Sliver of Hope
  44. 20
  45. Snow Swim
  46. 21
  47. A Glimpse into Next Door
  48. 22
  49. Date Night
  50. 23
  51. Quad Bike
  52. 24
  53. Back to the Office
  54. 25
  55. The Jab
  56. 26
  57. Dawn Call
  58. 27
  59. Life Drawing
  60. 28
  61. Equinox
  62. 29
  63. Home Hairdresser
  64. 30
  65. Beach Clean
  66. 31
  67. Bunny Ears
  68. 32
  69. Bombshell
  70. 33
  71. The Nightingale
  72. 34
  73. Destruction
  74. 35
  75. Home in a Box
  76. 36
  77. Back on Call
  78. 37
  79. Upfront and Honest
  80. 38
  81. A Trip to Hampstead Pond
  82. 39
  83. That Unmistakeable Profile
  84. 40
  85. Full Moon Swim
  86. 41
  87. The Unexpected Cwych
  88. 42
  89. Caught Out
  90. 43
  91. Shallow Water
  92. 44
  93. From The Pier
  94. 45
  95. Taking Flight
  96. 46
  97. Eels
  98. 47
  99. Facing Facts
  100. 48
  101. Breakfast of Champions
  102. 49
  103. The Betting Shop
  104. 50
  105. A Promise Kept
  106. 51
  107. A New Companion
  108. 52
  109. Adios
  110. 53
  111. A Family Celebration
  112. 54
  113. Towards the Horizon
  114. 55
  115. The Windfarm
  116. 56
  117. Round the Pier
  118. Acknowledgements
  119. Reading Group Questions
  120. Extract
  121. New Year’s Eve
  122. 1
  123. About the Publisher

‘You should go,’ she says. ‘It does wonders for my head.’

‘And how are you?’ he asks.

She sighs. ‘I’m getting there. As I said, the swimming helps. I’ve got a good bunch of friends I swim with. They stop things becoming too bleak. And work has been … well, work.’

Ever perceptive, Bill cocks his head. ‘You’re not enjoying being back?’

‘It’s OK. It’s just that my heart’s not in it,’ she says. ‘But I’m not sure what choice I have. I’ve got a bit of a cushion from Chris’s savings, but, financially, I can’t afford to give up work. I’m too old to do anything else.’

‘Nonsense,’ Bill says. ‘I didn’t come to work at the Samaritans until I was fifty. You’re never too old for a new direction.’

‘I don’t know what that direction would be.’

‘I’m sure you do. If you really think about it.’

Dominica smiles and she remembers Tor in the sea saying how she should be a counsellor.

‘It has crossed my mind to retrain,’ she says, feeling silly for admitting this. ‘Be a professional therapist of some sort.’

‘I can’t think of a finer idea. You’d be perfect.’

Jasmin comes out of the booth and hugs Dominica, warmly, delighted that she’s back. She’s always had youthful good looks, but her black hair is streaked with grey and there are bags under her eyes. She has a little bit of cake, but she’s tired and needs to get back for her kids.

Dominica heads to the booth, knowing that there’ll be callers waiting. She signs into her account and then switches her status to ‘available’ and the phone immediately rings.

Bill gives her a thumbs up and smiles as she answers.

There’s a young girl crying on the other end of the phone. Dominica makes soothing noises and gives the girl the time to stop crying. Once she has, Dominica gently tries to find out what’s causing the overwhelm. It doesn’t take long for her to start describing her situation. She’s caring for her disabled mum, there’s an alcoholic abusive father in the mix and she’s fallen out with her best friend over a boy. There’s an eviction order too, and a dangerous dog that had to be put down. It’s that bit of the story that has been the most heart-wrenching, so far.

During all of this description, the girl stops talking for minutes at a time, but Dominica knows to expect the silences. Her job has been to keep asking open questions, so the girl doesn’t shut down the conversation. There’ve been times that Dominica was worried she might be losing her, but she’s experienced enough to really listen to the silences. It’s so important not to jump in and fill the gaps, because that’s when people are often processing their thoughts.

Over time, she’s learnt that people are nothing if not expert in their own problems and she knows that, on a call, people are often just trying to work something out for themselves. Her role is to give them time and help coax it out of them, rather than to shut them down by offering her advice, although sometimes it’s tempting. People rarely see their choices as clear paths, but a blurry mess. She hopes to help the fog clear enough for them to see a road forward. Whether it’s the right one or not is often unknowable.