A great advantage of this fantasy, incidentally, which should not be overlooked, is that the man responds to the woman’s directions. She should, then, instruct him as to how to make love to her. She tells him where to touch her and how. This can be extremely valuable to the male in informing him as to what excites her. It can also be liberating to the wife because, in the context of the fantasy, she must command him. In standard sex she might be reticent to say anything to him. In the fantasy, she gives him detailed and explicit directions. It allows her, in the fantasy, to communicate her wants. Later, of course, in other love makings, he should remember what pleased her. If she enjoys having her breasts stroked and kissed, she should tell him to do this, and make sure he does it exactly as she wants. Similarly, if she wants her clitoris licked and kissed, in this fantasy, she orders it done. There is no embarrassment or hesitation. She is the queen, or ruling female. She orders her slave to do exactly what she wants. He must, of course, with perfection, comply. Feed-back, often missing in prosaic love making, is built into this fantasy. If the slave does not do it right, he must keep at it, until it is exactly as she wants. Furthermore, she, as queen or ruler, will insist on her complete pleasure. For example, she may not permit the male, under her command, to penetrate her until she is, an hour or so later, on her final orgasm. When penetration does take place presumably she will kneel across his body, writhing, taking him. Let him lie on his back this time. Let him look up at the dominant partner, who uses him for her pleasure.

If nothing else, when this fantasy is done, the husband should have a wealth of information about the sexual nature of his wife, and some of this information is likely to be new and valuable. In effect, he has been given a detailed lesson in how to sexually stimulate the woman he loves. This knowledge will make him tremendously happy. It is not likely to make his wife unhappy either.

17. The Two-Animal Fantasy.

A male and female animal encounter one another, and mate.

Comment:

Two animals, without speech, who have never encountered one another, and have never had sexual relations, meet. The animals are human animals, but still animal. They know nothing of sex, but, strangely, they feel attracted to one another. They smell one another, they study one another; they circle one another; they growl, warning one another off; they whine, inviting the other’s closer approach. They rub timidly against one another, and find it pleasurable. They touch one another, and kiss and lick one another. Soon, driven by their instincts, they mate. They are then companions, inseparable.