Most lovers, particularly women, do not even use their hands well in making love. Some women seem to be of the opinion that their portion in love making is limited to lying down and waiting to be pleased. Both lovers, needless to say, can, and should, be active. The hands of both are extremely important, as well as the rest of their bodies. Beyond this, however, very few lovers realize the value of the lips, tongue and teeth in sexually stimulating the partner. One of the values of this fantasy is that it forces the lover to rely heavily on these often neglected or ignored instruments of love. Needless to say, the “He-is-Forced-to-Please-Her-as-a-Bound-Captive Fantasy” would be the complementary fantasy of this one. Whether the male or the female is the captive, the captive must make love with his hands bound behind him. This should teach him a great deal. Let us suppose that the captive is, in this case, the woman. She is, let us suppose, to be slain unless she makes superb love to him. But she is bound! She feels helpless. She is thrown into consternation. Then, wildly, she realizes she must try to please him, and superbly, without the use of her hands. Otherwise she dies. She crawls into his bed, hands bound, as he waits. With her body, her breasts, her feet, her thighs, her sweet ass, her lovely cunt, her beautiful lips and teeth and tongue she addresses herself to his pleasure. After trying this fantasy once or twice the woman will have learned the fantastic potentialities of her body in making love, apart from the use of her small, delicate hands. After she has learned to do this well you can imagine how marvelous she will be when she has the use of her hands as well. What an incredible lover she will then be. This same fantasy, of course, like many, or most, of these fantasies can be used turnabout, with the male in the position of submission. Indeed, women may enjoy this when the male is bound. Having love made to them by a bound male can enhance their sense of power. Most women can use a bit of this. From time to time it is good for them to be dominant. It helps them to think better of themselves. It releases suppressed emotions and ventilates often-bottled hostility and aggression. It gives them more self-respect and helps them to be freer, happier human beings. There are pleasures in being the leader, the commander. These pleasures should be open to the woman as well as the man.

11. The Captured-by-Desert-Tribesmen Fantasy.

The girl is captured by desert tribesmen.

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