50. The What-Will-He-Do-with-Me? Fantasy.

A beautiful woman, stark naked, is placed in a room with a man she has never seen before. She knows nothing whatsoever about him. But she is completely at his mercy. He then does with her whatever he pleases.

Comment:

The uncertainty here can be stimulating, as well as psychologically imagining the entire situation, on the part of both partners. When she enters the room, she knows only she is at his mercy. She must obey, perfectly.

The turnabout fantasy here, of course, is for role reversal to take place, and for the man, naked, to be introduced into the room of the female, at whose mercy he is, completely. He must obey her, and perfectly. She then does with him whatever she pleases.

1 Another variation is to have her enter the room blindfolded, her hands tied behind her back. You open the door for her, “Come in, my dear.” You then guide her to a place beside your chair. “Kneel here, my dear, and wait.” She kneels, back on her heels, blindfolded, hands tied, head down, hair falling forward. She is exquisitely beautiful, and yours. When you remove the blindfold, who does she discover you to be? A stranger? A former lover, perhaps spurned? A ruthless leader and hero of the people, feared and desired by women, who takes those that please him as slaves? A detested enemy, whom she knows will now exact from her helpless, unwilling beauty astounding pleasures for himself, even, insolently, forcing her to share them, forcing her, against her will, to find in his arms the ecstasy of the completely dominated slave girl? She fears him, for, looking into his eyes, she knows that he can and will force her, against her present will, to fall madly in love with him. How much she will be at his mercy then, not merely his rape victim, but his sexually conquered, loving slave. When he’s finished with her she knows that she will adore him, and be his slave.

Variations here may be contextual. In what one might call the “Millionaire-Playboy” version, the man perhaps waits for her, sitting, in an easy chair. Perhaps he wears a tuxedo. He reads or smokes. When she enters the room, perhaps he glances up, and then returns to his reading, or he continues to smoke, regarding her. Perhaps, until he is ready for her, he tells her to kneel beside his chair, her head down, hair falling forward.1 When he wishes, he then does with her what he wishes. (Have you ever had your wife remove your clothing with her teeth?) In another variation, what might be called the “Aggressive Lesbian” variation, she waits for him, and he enters the room. She waits perhaps in fatigues, and boots. She then does with him whatever she wishes. Presumably she hates men, and wishes to degrade and humiliate them. This is useful as a female vengeance fantasy. The husband, for example, may play the role of some male whom the wife dislikes, or who had been contemptuous of her. She then makes him pay, and a thousand times over. Other variations, of course, in context and role, may occur to the players. The important common element of the “What-Will-He-Do-With-Me-?” fantasies are that only one partner directs; the other complies. The uncertainty, particularly in the case of the woman, produces a fringe of fear. Fear in a female is not at all incompatible with her sexuality. A bit of fear, and not knowing what is to be done with her, makes her more vulnerable, more submissive. This stimulates aggressiveness in the male and facilitates the attainment of submission-orgasms in the penetrated female.